EARLY TIMES
IN THE SALACOA VALLEY
{A HISTORY OF THE HARMON AND
COOK FAMILIES}
Written by Daisy Belle
Harmon Thompson about 1980
Born August 9, 1900, in Waleska, Georgia.
Granddaughter of Joshua Harmon and Lemuel Jay Cook.
Early
in the 1800s four boys and one girl living in South Carolina were making plans
to take a drastic step forward in an effort to establish and prove to
themselves and others that they were young people with a vision - as well as a
desire to succeed on their own. Their
names were Joshua, Henry, George, and Frank Harmon, and their sister Harriette
- their lovely red-headed sister - making five in number. Their parents had come to America from an
English colony, probably Ireland, and settled in South Carolina. They were among countless others who had
left the mother country in search of freedom to worship God without the
interference of government oppression.
Grandpa
Joshua Harmon was the oldest of the five, so he was chosen to be their
spokesman and leader. Sister Harriette,
being the only female, naturally had the all important task of cooking,
cleaning, washing, ironing, and mending, along with countless other duties that
befell the poor female.
Preparations
were made. They had to get a covered
wagon, horses to pull the wagon, equipment, and provisions. They had to have
plenty of food for travelling, as well as enough to last until they were
settled. Now, with everything ready for
action, they compiled their few earthly possessions: packing first things first
as they would be needed. The wagon
inside looked like a stuffed toad.
Everything was ready. Now it was
time to say goodbye to friends and loved ones.
This did not come as easy as they thought, but, determined to carry on,
Grandpa Joshua climbed into the wagon with a cheery call, “All aboard. We’re on our way. Goodbye, South Carolina.
Hello, Georgia. We are headed
your way.” Aunt Harriette occupied the
seat with her brother Joshua. Being the
sweet, lovable person she was, she chirped up with a word of assurance, “We’re
all for one and one for all.”
As
the heavily loaded wagon moved forward under the power of two beautiful horses,
a gift from the parents of these youngsters, it was evident that the parents
must have had confidence in these, their sons and daughter, that God would
watch over them and be their constant guide - just as He had already cared for
them, allowing good fortune from the time they had reached America.
After
several days on the road they felt sure Georgia could not be very much farther
away. Their expectancy and the rush to
see just what awaited them over the next hill and around the curve kept them
going. Their dreams were becoming a
reality. Then they saw “Georgia
Welcomes You” in large letters painted on a signpost just a few feet away. It called for jubilant yells that perhaps
disturbed the animals and birds. After
a few more days travel, these eager youngsters found themselves in the
beautiful Salacoa Valley in Northwest Georgia.
Carefully
observing everything, they took plenty of time to make sure each one expressed
likes and dislikes before fully deciding to stay there. Finally, a vote was taken, and the likes
won. This area they had decided to call
home was, and still is, a beautiful valley nestled within the last chain of the
Blue Ridge Mountains. It seemed as if
the hills
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were trying to form a cradle of protection for the
valley. There was Sharp Top Mountain on
the north, Bird Mountain on the south, and Pine Log Mountain on the west. The soil in this valley was very fertile,
which assured good crops. Everything
seemed to be working to the advantage of the newcomers. They found friendly neighbors ready to
assist in getting them set up and ready for farming.
Time
seemed to fly by, weeks into months and months into years. To Grandpa Joshua’s surprise, as well as
Aunt Harriett’s and Uncle Henry’s, the other two brothers, Uncle Frank and
Uncle George, announced one day that they had decided to see what Texas looked
like. Nothing had happened to cause the
break in the group. All had been peace
and harmony. The twosome just wanted to
see more of the country before settling down to the domestic life the other two
brothers seemed headed for. The western frontier was to be their next
stop. There they hoped to find the
welcome mat out. So they took off for
the State of Texas.
At
first, very little was heard from the two brothers. Finally, they wrote back to Georgia telling how wonderful Texas
was. They exchanged a few letters after
that, but evidently Uncle George and Uncle Frank must have gotten very busy and
did not have time to write.
In
the meantime, Grandpa Joshua and Uncle Henry seemed to be running a race to see
who would get married first. This was
very evident to their sister, Harriette, who was a close observer on the
sideline. She was watching to see who
would bring his bride home first. Uncle
Henry was the first to go courting, and from the first it was plain to see that
the beautiful and modest Fanny Hobgood was the one and only girl for him. Aunt Harriette had the task of preparing a
wedding dinner for brother Henry and his bride. The two had a lot in common.
Uncle Henry never spoke out of turn or before thinking. He and his bride were very compatible, and
really made a handsome couple. She, so
dainty and beautiful, and her husband, not so handsome, but very likeable.
At
the same time, Grandpa Joshua was calling on Aunt Fanny’s sister, Betsy. They had been courting even longer than
Uncle Henry and Aunt Fanny. Betsy was
known as “Miss Spit Fire!” This was due
to her quick temper. Her temper would
show, but soon she was a meek as a lamb, all smiles and chattering again. Grandpa Joshua had plenty of temper himself,
and it was not so easy giving in to her whims.
The
little house with the side room was not big enough for another bride and groom,
so Grandpa built one large room nearby for his new bride and himself. Aunt Harriette had the pleasure of cooking a
second bridal dinner along with her favorite cheese straw stack, which was a
table decoration as well as a tasty delicacy.
Grandpa Joshua took great pride in himself that he had won the hand of
the beautiful Betsy Hobgood. She was
small and had real black hair and eyes equally as black. Her complexion was flawless, and she
congratulated herself for being voted the prettiest girl in the Salacoa Valley
community. Along with the beauty honor,
she had another title not quite so enthusiastically cherished, “Miss Spit
Fire,” given to her by her family.
(Here is a confusing ditty: “Two brothers and two sisters married,
making brothers brothers-in-law, and making sisters sisters-in-law. Their children were closer than half brothers
and sisters.”)
The
once newlyweds of the foursome were soon established in homes of their own -
with babies coming that completed the union of these brothers with their
wives. The pitter-patter of little feet
along with jabbering little voices made a house a home. Among Grandpa Joshua’s children, along about the fourth or fifth in
number, was the pet of the
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family. He
was named George (my Pa). He won the
title, because he was kind and agreeable.
He never liked to fuss, but was more on the peacemaker side. He was not too tall or too short, rather
stocky built, and had light brown curly hair, a cute pug nose, and was too
pretty to be a boy. His disposition was
dignified and polite.
The
farming was improving, with tobacco and cotton the leading crops - with corn
coming in third. They were confident of
the future, and Georgia, in general, was progressing rapidly. The southern farms in the state were level
and easy to cultivate, but the Harmons preferred North Georgia.
There
was talk of war in the extreme Northern States. The North brought Negroes from England to work in factories for a
small salary, but they did not realize Negroes could not stand the cold
weather. Southern planters bought the
Negroes. They thrived in the South and
were an asset to the farmers. They
liked the warmer climate as well as the Southern people. On a lot of the plantations, a member of the
white family would teach the Negroes how to read and write, or they would read
the Bible to those who were interested.
A group would sit in a circle in the big kitchen and listen to the
reading of the Bible usually by their “Missus,” the lady of the house.
Let
us pass by a few years, not that things were not happening, but because of time
and space. To be sure, the Harmons
never bought any slaves. They were
having a joyful time working and watching the children grow - and probably
looking forward to another baby any day.
Insert.
Excerpt from an article “Slaves in Salacoa” taken from the North Georgia Journal, Autumn 1998:
Small manufacturing and agricultural enterprises
existed in Folsom through-out the 19th century. The Mosteller and Pinson families had grist, lumber, carding, and
ginning mills run by water power. The
economy of Salacoa and its envirnons, however, was ultimately built upon yeoman
agriculture. The land did not lend
itself to plantation agriculture, but was ideal for the production of hogs,
corn, and wheat. Despite this fact,
there were some slave-holders in the area.
There was only one businessman in the Salacoa vicinity, however, which
could have been considered a member of the “planter class.” This was Felix Denman who owned 28 slaves in
1840. William Wyley, who held 14, was
the second-largest slave-holder in the community that year.
It
was reported that the North was keeping check on the South as to the progress
and success the blacks were bringing to the plantation owners. It was plain to see that production was
improving. They began to send spies
posing as just another real American singing the praises for prosperity and
giving thanks to God, as was customary here in this beautiful country.
Again
we will skip a few years. The
Northeners continued to pass through.
As time went by, the blacks began to change. It seemed they were not as content as usual. Disturbance among the blacks themselves was
causing trouble for the farmers.
Finally, some of the older blacks told the story of how the strangers
passing through were talking to the younger blacks telling them to rebel, quit
working so hard, pretend to be sick, and fuss among themselves - just anything
to cause trouble. The Northern States
were getting desperate. With the growth
of the Southern cotton and tobacco crops, it was plain to see the South would
soon be a threat to the North. They
could soon build factories and produce just as well as the North. These things were not realized by Southern
authorities who were too busy to see what was happening and too loyal to their
neighbor states to be-
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lieve they could be so devious as to want to
undermine their Southern countrymen.
What they did not know was to become public knowledge later.
Harrett
Beecher Stowe, a spinster school teacher, came down from the North to Look Out
Mountain and rented a shack. She
explained that she was planning to write a book and that she wanted complete
isolation and privacy. Also, it would
be time consuming, and she did not know how long it would take to finish the
book. Little did the people of Georgia
know the book she was writing would cause the war between the North and
South. As mentioned prior to this,
snoopers had been coming and going for a long time throughout the South. They had been secretly talking to the
slaves, stirring up hate between the Negroes and the plantation owners. These spies told untrue things. One was that the slaves were beaten with
bull whips and chains, salt rubbed into their bleeding flesh, and then forced
to sit in the sun. Many more stories
equally as cruel were told in this book.
Harriet Beecher Stowe made many trips through the South, but she always
played it safe so that she was not suspected of being a calumniator. Constantly news from the South continued to
reach the North, telling these false tales of how the slaves were forced to
work in the fields from sunup to sundown.
The slaves had been giving trouble ever since the North had interfered,
but the punishment had been lenient. To
my knowledge, no bull whips or chains were used.
The
book was written within a brief period of time. It was printed, and in an unbelievably short time it was being
sold in the North. The South came on
strong, replying in a very firm and meaningful statement that the South would
not take the false accusations that were made in this book. Harriett Beecher Stowe’s book, written
within the boundaries of a state in the deep South, namely Georgia, continued
to exploit the South. The South
demanded that the author retract her statements. They stated that the author had exaggerated in many stories and
that some were “homemade lies.” “Do
this or expect drastic steps, steps we do not want to take, but will, you can
rest assured. The decision rests in
your hands.”
The
North ignored the Southern States’ demand for fair treatment. Taking silence to mean a refusal to
communicate, the Southern States decided to defend their honor. Before leaving to fight the war, the men
from the Salacoa Valley appointed ten honorable and outstanding men, who were
exempt from Army duties, to patrol the area.
They were given the name of Home Guards, meaning they were to patrol a
designated area of twenty-five miles in case families needed help. It was very comforting to women and children
to know they had men who were their best friends that cared and would do their
best to help in any way possible. The
families had the assurance of a watchful group of reliable men who had pledged
their lives to husbands who were saying goodbye, perhaps for the last time.
For
some time the Home Guards were loyal to the pledge they made, but as time
passed they became selfish and failed to remember their duties. Their check calls that were so regular at
first became far between, and there was less interest in helping the mothers
and children. The men began to harass
the families. They would throw their
weight around as if they were taking over, and the lonely, frightened families
were afraid to see them coming. The
original plan was for them to visit in small groups and by doing this more
visits per day could be accomplished.
Instead, they consolidated, and all visited together. Soon they began robbing and taking anything
they wanted, from horses to food and clothes.
The sudden change in the once-trusted Home
Guards was unbelievable for the
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women and children to see. They witnessed completely reversed tactics in the men who were so
helpful and loyal for the first two or three years of the horrible war. Instead
of giving assistance to the families, now their calls were occasional and not
to inquire if their services were needed, but to get food or anything else they
wanted. They even took quilts from the
children’s beds or corn from the crib for their horses. Then if a good young horse or mule was spied
in a stall near the crib, they took it also.
They would ride these animals so fast and long, that many times a horse
would be found where these heartless men had ridden it until it had fallen to
the ground from exhaustion - and then they had shot it. They would ride on with one idea in mind -
to find another horse or mule in some woman’s barn, leaving her without any way
to plow the fields to grow corn and vegetables for, not only summer food, but
for winter as well. The women would try
to store potatoes, both Irish and sweet, in hidden places, but in some homes
these men were known to force someone, usually one of the children, to show
where the potatoes were hidden.
When
the men from the Salacoa Valley thought of their families, they believed their
loved ones were being cared for by the Home Guards. These renegades had made faithful promises to patrol the
twenty-five mile circle through the valley, but things had changed. The women and children became afraid to hear
these riders coming as fast as their horses could run. It frightened the smaller children to have
these vicious men come in yelling or singing some old song not decent for
anyone to hear, especially youngsters.
The
community of Sharp Top had left two men within the designated radius to
continue with their regular professions.
One was a miller who ground corn to make meal, and the other was a shoe
cobbler who made and mended shoes for the community. Both men were exempt from military duties. The Home Guards, turned killers, murdered
these two men by hanging them to a tree limb in a public place - and they were
left hanging there.
Grandpa
Lemuel Cook took this as a warning that he could be next. He had fallen from a tree and broken his
back, and he could never stand erect after the fall. Going back a few years, Grandpa Cook had built a new house for
his family - his wife Rebecca and six children: Elijah, Joe, Emma, Marguerite,
Nancy, and Sue. The family was moving
from Gilmer County to the Cherokee County community of Sharp Top. He was topping trees before moving his
family to their new home when he fell and broke his back. He lay on a plank for three months while his
back was healing, but he was never able to stand erect and, therefore, could
not serve in the Army. He decided to
start walking toward Chattanooga, Tennessee, hoping to get protection doing
something at the Northern headquarters.
He reached Chattanooga and was given a job in the Federalist Army. Yes, this gave proof that he had cast his
lot with the enemies of the South. He
was paid a small salary and was saving it for his family, hoping to come in
contact with someone from his section of Georgia who would bring a small
package to his family in the Sharp Top community. He found a person who promised to deliver the package. The man kept his promise and delivered the
package but failed to keep it a secret.
A
member of the terrorist gang heard that sixty dollars had been delivered to the
Cook family. They wasted no time in
paying Grandma Rebecca a visit. It was
wintertime and snow was on the ground.
These men rode up yelling and screaming like mad men. After dismounting, they divided up, and some
came inside the house while leaving others outside to see that no one
left. They continued to yell and
curse. One man told Grandma Rebecca
they had come after something and were not leaving without it. “It’s the sixty dollars your old man sent
you and these coughing towheads. We
also want the Barlow knives he sent for these boys, so hand it over.” Grandma Rebecca refused to give them the
money. Those outside yelled, “Pile all
the bedding on the floor and put a torch to it, and
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we’ll keep her and them barking bastards in there
and let them burn up together.” Two of
the heartless killers had pushed Grandma back between two beds and were
pressing a pistol barrel against her chest.
After putting the bedding in the floor, one man was standing with a
torch, when she told him if he would untie her arms, she would give him the
money. He untied her, and she gave him
thirty dollars. All the men went to the
fireplace where the big logs made a glow to count the money. Finding it was just half there, they started
raving again and relit the torch. While
they were counting the money at the fireside, Grandma Rebecca dropped the
remaining thirty dollars to the floor and put her foot on it. They came back yelling, “Thirty dollars is
missing. We want it all!” Grandma recognized a voice coming from
outside. It was the voice of her
cousin. Above the shouts he was saying,
“Have you men in there lost your nerve?
Use that torch or we are coming inside and do it for you. We will get the money and keep Marguerite,
Nancy, and Susie in there where they can dance their farewell dance as the
flames swallow them up.”
She
gave the money to the man with the torch.
Grabbing the torch from his hand, she rushed to put it in the fire. Turning, she saw her eldest son, Elijah,
unconscious on the floor in the kitchen doorway. One of the men had thrown a rope over the joist in the doorway
and had lifted Elijah off the floor until he was unconscious. But he never gave up his Barlow knife that
his father had sent in the package!
Grandma
Rebecca was so alarmed, she almost lost control of herself. She examined him as best she could, but he
was so still and lifeless that she could not revive him. He was scarcely breathing, and his neck was
bleeding and swollen. After getting the
coughing smaller children quiet, she sat by her son’s bed not knowing what would
be the result of the hanging. Her fear
was that he would never talk again. She
waited and prayed he would hold on to life and that the new day would soon
dispel the darkness that had brought such a harrowing experience to the Cook
home that nestled at the foot of Sharp Top Mountain. It was cold outside, but just the new day would be a change. Uncle Elijah was restless, and occasionally
he would try to move. His bruised
throat was sore and painful, but he had to force himself to get better, because
he was his Ma’s right-hand man. At last
she caught the first rays of light. And
that told her finally the gloomy night would be replaced by the beautiful sun
rays that would brighten the day and quieten the sick children, as well as
restore her strength.
Elijah
slowly recovered. His voice was not
impaired too much, but throughout it all, he held onto his Barlow knife. Would you like to know where he hid his
knife? Behind the big back log in the
fireplace. After the robbers left,
Uncle Joe, who knew where it was, took the fire tongs and fished the precious
knife out of the ashes.
Note: Not only did Elijah
get his voice back, but when he grew up he even became a preacher of the
Gospel. He was ordained to the ministry
in 1890.
Not
until the morning was far spent did Uncle Joe reveal what had happened to their
beloved dog, Ned. One of the outsiders
had ordered Uncle Joe to “hold that d____ varmit, or I will blow his head off.” Joe caught Ned by the collar and stood
astride his beloved big collie. Ned was
not trying to cause trouble, but the children crying and coughing disturbed the
dog, and holding him did not do any good.
One of the rascals shot the beautiful dog from between Uncle Joe’s
knees. He did not tell the family what
had happened that night. He knew the
smaller children would not sleep if they found out that their beloved dog was
dead. All the family had loved
Ned. He had helped dispel a lot of
gloom that seemed to overshadow the Cook family home, as he ran and played for
hours with the children.
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The
war was continuing. News reached the
families back home that the South was fighting to win, but they needed new
recruits. The North had the advantage
since the Northern section was more thickly populated. Also it had many factories and numerous
other industries.
The
terrorists paid the Rebecca Cook home another call. This raid was for potatoes.
They were hidden away in dirt hills with brush camouflage cover, but
these men got one of the children to take them to the hidden potato hill. They were afraid to refuse to do just what
these once-gentlemen, but now monsters, told them to do. They left very few potatoes. They took the remainder of the meat. Grandma had churns of lard, as well as
several churns of honey. These men took
an ax and crushed all the jars. Then
with the ax handle they stirred honey, lard, and dirt (back then smoke houses
were not floored) together until neither could be separated. It was a total loss, both honey and
lard. These traitors to their promise
to look after the families in that community yelled out, “Your breakfast is
waitin’ for you in the smoke house.
Happy eating.”
As
mentioned earlier, Grandpa Cook left for Chattanooga to join the Army of the
Northern States. That is why his family
was treated so cruelly by the Home Guards, as well as former friends. Actually, there were men from a number of
families in their community who joined the Federal Army. Homes were divided. Some family members joined the Southern
Army, while others joined the Northern Army.
Grandpa Cook was put on the cooking staff when he reached Chattanooga
and became a member of the Northern forces.
When the war was over, he returned home a staunch Federalist. Subsequently, his two sons who were born
were named Grant and Sherman. This was
proof of his loyalty to the Union.
Time
was slowly passing. It seemed an
eternity since the first battle at Fort Sumter, South Carolina. As has been told, the South could not
continue to take the insults passed across from North to South. There were unkind stories about the
struggling farm people, women who plowed oxen, and uneducated children in the
South. Countless reflections were daily
heard. A blunt and to the point warning
was given to the Federalists. They were
told if they did not retract the statements and admit the accusations were
untrue, the bombing would continue with all the vigor the Southern States could
muster, and the South would be victorious.
As history shows, the demands of the South were ignored, as though to say,
“It will be settled on the battlefield.”
A
good deal has been told of the suffering among the families back home. Time cannot be given in this brief story to
tell of the many other families that were treated equally as bad as the Joshua
Harmon and Lemuel Cook families. These
two households were those of my grandparents.
I
was once asked the question, “How can you remember these stories and tell them
as if they happened only a few years ago?”
My answer was, “If it had been your parents, I am sure you would
remember. These stories were told to me
by my parents. It is probably
unbelievable for you to conceive that I am eighty years old, and these stories
are still very clear in my mind. As I
am writing, I still go back to my days as a child seated by my Pa as he told
the stories to me. And a teardrop falls
on my paper as I relive the years so long ago.”
The
story about my family receiving the news that Grandpa Joshua had been wounded
in the Battle of Gettysburg was the hardest for my daddy to tell. (Note: War records show that Joshua Harmon
surrendered at Vicksburg, not Gettysburg, on July 4,
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1863.) It
was days before any news arrived as to the extent of the wound or whether he
would be able to make the long trip home.
All the family could do was to wait for news from his captain. His wound was severe, but hopefully he could
make the trip home. Grandma Betsy was
helpless, not knowing what to do or what to expect. The older girls were such a consolation to their Ma. They discouraged the gloomy thoughts and
gave her encouragement that he would reach home soon. And then they would nurse him back to that old Pa who had left
home so well and strong.
Then
it began to dawn on them that he would not be safe in the house. They were afraid the Home Guards would kill
him. Then Uncle Will remembered the big
rock where the children liked to play.
It had a little room under it, and he thought that by digging to make
the room larger, Grandpa could have a cot as well as room for a member of the family
to be with him all the time. The work
was such a pleasure for these boys.
Uncle Will was in charge, with little brother George (my Pa) standing by
to help. Little George served as errand
boy in case tools from the tool house were needed. He would have them to the digger in a jiffy. (Note: William Cecil Harmon was thirteen
years old at the time, and his brother George was eleven.) They were careful not to leave any tell-tale
signs. The entrance was camouflaged so
perfectly with nature’s trees and stones that the traitors would not notice any
change in the landscape, they hoped.
Soon they had everything ready for Grandpa, cot and all, in his hideout.
George,
who was eleven years old now, felt quite grown-up during these hectic
times. He believed that he could do
something helpful toward making his Pa’s homecoming safer. He had a plan all his own, and he did not
want the rest of the family to know about it.
He confided in his brother, Willie, what he wanted to do. There was a corral circling the barn with
the horses’ stables and the crib where corn for feed and corn meal for the
family was stored. The posts were
higher than the fence of the corral.
Little George wanted to build a seat on top of a post facing the
road. This way he could see any riders
whose horses would be galloping into view.
Uncle Will thought young George’s idea was great for an eleven year old
boy to think of. They wasted no time in
getting the project underway. The seat
was built substantially strong to avoid a fall, since it was rather high. Next, strips were tacked to the post in
ladder fashion. This made it easier to
get to the seat. George later spent
hours seated in that high seat watching for the Home Guards who always came
unexpectedly.
Finally
the long silence was broken with news that Grandpa Joshua was on his way
somewhere between Vicksburg, Virginia (Note: This should read Vicksburg,
Mississippi) and North Georgia. At
least the silence had been broken, and hopefully he would be home soon. Grandma Betsy kept all her fears from the
children, but down deep she was a complete wreck not knowing anything for
certain. He could be dead. All the consolation she had was from his captain. He was wounded in the battle and was being
sent home to recuperate. She knew the
care of a doctor would be necessary, but that was impossible, since the Home
Guards were really making things harder than ever. They knew the war had to come to an end. The brave Confederate Army could not hold
out much longer, but they were determined not to submit to defeat.
Now
Grandpa was finally home. He was alive,
but seriously wounded. Grandma Betsy
rushed him to his hideaway cave as quickly as possible, fearing someone would
see them and report to the Home Guard.
His captain had sent him under the supervision of an army sergeant. Helpless and frightened, she took over, God
being her guide.
Grandma could only thank God that He had at
least allowed her man to get home
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alive.
Grandpa told her just how it happened.
The battle had lasted for days.
There was one round of firing, and then close in where the dead and
wounded lay, there was another round. A
bullet had hit him in the lower right chest, clipping the tip of his lung and
passing on through his back. What could
she do? His life was in her hands. She had no medical assistance, only home
remedies to treat the wound with. The
Home Guards were sure to find out he was home if there was too much activity
going on at the Harmon home. Grandma
believed her husband had a chance. He
had survived the long and dangerous trip home.
Perhaps she could help him recover.
She knew one thing for certain, the wound had to be kept open and not
allowed to close up. It would cause
inflammation. Then too, the blood had
to be kept cleaned from the wound drainage.
All she had was homemade salves and an ointment prepared from herbs and
roots. This was made from an Indian
recipe and was used for cuts and sores.
But how chould she get the ointment into the wound? It had to pass through his body in order to
cleanse the wound.
One
of the girls had a Chinese silk handkerchief.
Grandma Betsy thought it would be less bulky, but how would she ever get
it into the wound? Then she had an
idea. She could take one of her
knitting needles, make a little hook on one end and use it to pull the small
handkerchief through. She would
saturate the handkerchief in the oily salve, hook one corner to the knitting
needle and pull it through. Next, how
was Grandpa going to endure the pain of having that pulled through his
body? He was so weak from the strenuous
trip home, plus the loss of blood.
There was just one thing to do, and that would be hard to get him to do,
namely, drink enough corn whiskey to really knock him out, so that he would
have no pain. He was suffering, so he
consented to do what she thought best.
Then too, this would give her strength to proceed with the
treatment. She planned two treatments
daily.
She
waited until he was completely out, and then she proceeded with the first treatment. She eased the knitting needle into the wound
from the front and pushed it straight forward.
Luckily, Uncle Will saw the movement and caught hold. Then Grandma pulled the handkerchief through
Grandpa’s body, bringing with it clots of puss and blood. She felt sure the wound was clear and free
to drain. Grandpa was in such a drunken
stupor, he showed little awareness of what was happening. Uncle Will was right there giving her
support and telling her that there was not another woman living who could have
had the physical strength she had just demonstrated. Her reply was, “I could not have performed this without help from
on high, and He will hold my hand as I continue these treatments. And I believe if I do all I can, He will be
with me to do the impossible. With His
help I believe our Pa will live.”
The
little dugout room would be Grandpa Joshua’s hospital room, with his wife
caring for his every need possible. It
was hard to sterilize everything. This
had to be done at the house, where hot water was available, and then the
sterile materials carried to his cave for the treatments. Grandma Betsy knew how dangerously ill
Grandpa was. The sergeant who had
brought him home had performed miracles in the care he had given him during the
long trip home. Now it was all left up
to her to continue with all the treatments as planned. She observed every detail about her husband,
and from the moment he reached home, she was by his side.
Aunt
Molly, the oldest girl, took care of seeing that everything that touched his
body was clean and sterilized for the treatments. Grandma believed that each time there was less blood and puss on
the ointment-saturated handkerchief.
This assured her that complications were less likely than at the
beginning. Also, he seemed to be
resting more. The one-time beauty queen
of the Salacoa Valley had lost a lot of her “spitfire temper” as
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well as some of her beauty. She had tried to carry on as her husband
did, but the once-gentlemen who were so helpful at first had stolen and carried
provisions to their own families until at times milk and bread was their only
meal. The greedy men had stolen the
potatoes down to the bottom of the potato hill. So, the children would have to stir in the loose dirt searching
for potatoes the Home Guards might have overlooked.
Several
weeks had passed since Grandpa’s arrival.
He had improved so unbelievably fast that it was hard to comprehend, but
not to believe would have been impious.
Now
it was planned for Grandpa to come out of his little mountain hideout for the
first time. His birthday was just a few
days away, and big preparations were being made for this important event. Grandma and the girls, Aunt Molly, Aunt
Frankie, and Aunt Roney, were planning the biggest birthday feast that had ever
been served in the Harmon home.
Everything was ready for the big celebration. The boys put Grandpa in a chair, disregarding his wanting to
walk, to bring him to the house. They
seated him at the big long table exactly in his family seat that he had not
filled for over four years. Little
George was seated atop his lookout stand, but, to be sure, he wanted to be
eating with the family. Grandpa
insisted that someone go for him, telling him that maybe the terrorist riders
would not come calling on this eventful day.
But he was wrong.
The
WHOOPEES were heard loud and clear. The
boys took hold of Grandpa to help him, but to their amazement, he ran out the
back door. The Home Guards came through
the house and seeing the feast on the table, they knew for sure that Grandpa
was home. Their tip-off was true. Joshua Harmon was at home. They ran out
looking for him in all directions. One
spied him running across the open field that was at the foot of the
mountain. He was going in the opposite
direction from his hideout den. They
began shooting at him, but Grandpa knew he was out of range of the bullets, and
he felt sure they would not follow him, since he was so near the deep-wooded
area. Grandpa stopped and yelled back,
“If I had my old muzzle-loading shotgun I laid down at Gettysburg, I could beat
all such d____ shooting as you have done!
So long, traitors!” They turned,
mounted their horses and rode away.
George
(my Pa) took all the blame. He could
have given Grandpa more time to get away if he had been in his lookout seat on
top of the corral post. But they all
reminded him that it was Grandpa himself who had “his little man,” as he called
him, get down from his watch and come to eat with the family.
My
Pa, George Harmon, was one of a group of horrified youngsters who had
experienced several raids by the so-called Home Guards. Grandma Betsy was deeply concerned about her
young son. He had horrible dreams and
would scream out at night saying, “They killed my Pa. I was not watching. I let
them ride in. I was not on my lookout
post.” At times she could calm him by
telling him it was a bad dream, but at other times he was very grief
stricken. It was pathetic to hear the
cry of a small boy who had taken the responsibilities of a much older person.
Finally,
George realized that the war was over and his Pa was no longer hiding from the
terrible Home Guards, but there in the house with the family. What he didn’t know was that his Pa would
probably never be strong again. The
wound he had received had left him disabled.
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Time
passed, and the children were getting less apprehensive as days turned into
weeks and no Home Guards came calling.
That fear was replaced with a contented, trusting, childlike faith that
had overshadowed the nightmare of the horrible past four years.
War
news continued to reach back home. The
Northern soldiers were outnumbering the Southern soldiers, and there was no
hope for new recruits to replace the Southerners. It seemed the Southern men stood facing the enemy with more vigor
than ever before, despite the fact that they could never win without new
recruits. A number of young men had
joined in, but hundreds were needed to fill the vacancies left by the Battle of
Gettysburg.
Finally,
General Robert E. Lee called his ragged and half-starved troops together. They stood erect and listened carefully to
each word that was spoken by their beloved general. He told them, “You have demonstrated that you are the most heroic
men who have ever fought in any war, regardless. You have endured the hardships that soldiers face, but you are
unwilling to surrender when outnumbered as we are. I feel sure it is best to ask for a cease fire. Those of our number who are not standing
here today made the supreme sacrifice.
You would have made it if you had been standing where your comrades were
standing. So, let us admit that we are
outnumbered but not defeated. To ask
for a cease fire is best. You are
hungry and half-clad. Your uniforms are
in tatters on your bodies. Do not
forget, the South will rise again, stronger than ever.”
On
April 9, 1865, General Robert E. Lee, Confederate General of the Southern armed
forces, surrendered his exhausted army to U. S. Grant at Appomattox Courthouse
in Virginia. The other armies
surrendered shortly, thus ending the most tragic war up to this date that
Georgia has ever encountered.
This
conflict was started on April 12, 1861, and ended four years later, April 12,
1865, less four days. Thus ended a war
that cost more lives on the battlefield than any war in the United States up to
that time. Brothers fought against
brothers, and sons against fathers, not knowing if their bullets felled a
beloved kinsman.
Back
home, the tired and nerve-shattered wives waited for the return of husbands and
sons, or at least some news that would give them hope - or would it be the
saddest of all news that their brave men had paid the supreme sacrifice on the
battlefield somewhere above the Mason and Dixon line?
Months
or maybe a year after the war was over and Grandpa Harmon was better, he had a
big surprise for his family. He had
been thinking about something for a long time.
He wanted to establish and operate a shop in his own home. This was an hour of decision for Grandpa
Joshua. He and Grandma Betsy had never
kept secrets from each other. Imagine
the shock, as well as surprise, when he told her all the secret desires he had
kept hidden from her. It took time for
him to decide just how he was going to tell her and when the proper time would
be. He knew it could not be a time when
all the family was together. They were
careful not to talk about important affairs when the family was all
around. Yet, three of the boys were
quite mature youngsters. Will and
George were lively young men, but not old enough to vote, therefore, making
family decisions was a no-no for minors back in those days. At twenty-one you were a man with all the
freedom and responsibilities that might come your way. You were expected to be able to meet each
challenge on your own and to work out things for the best of all concerned.
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Grandpa
told Grandma Betsy what he wanted to do.
Everything was taken into consideration, and, as was customary, Grandpa
and Grandma together had to reach a decision.
The problem was he would have to take training in North Carolina. That would mean nine months away from home
at least. The fee for the training plus
other expenses would probably exceed what they could afford also. But Grandma Betsy, the little mite she was,
but full of pride, raised her voice with words of encouragement as she looked
into the eyes of the man she had married some twenty-odd years before. She saw a man who had almost come back from
the dead, now regaining his handsome looks, as color returned to his
once-painstricken face. It had brought
fear and hopelessness to her for such a long time. She told afterwards how near she had come to giving up, but then
she had added her faith with Grandpa’s that one day he would be well and strong
again.
Now
it was time to tell the children. They
called them in, hoping it would not be too difficult for the younger ones to
understand what was happening. Their Pa
would be going away, but not to war. He
would be learning to do something very important for the farmers. He would learn to make more and better tools
for the benefit of the farmers, not only in the Salacoa Valley, but throughout
the whole section. Farmers would use
the tools Grandpa would be able to make in his own shop. The two older boys especially were very
enthused over the idea that their Pa would be important to all the farmers who
had to go so far to buy farm tools.
They wanted him to make plans to go immediately. Yes, they knew that the farming would be
their first duty, and they pledged their efforts toward revitalizing the
once-forgotten acres that had had to be left untended due to a lack of farming
stock. This livestock had been driven
off by the men who in the beginning took care of the women and children when
the need arose. Even Grandma’s little
horse she had called her own had been taken.
In the past she had put on her riding skirt, saddled and mounted Black Jack,
and ridden off toward Canton to tend to business such as paying taxes and other
things that called for a visit to the county seat occasionally.
It
was apparent that things were getting back to normal around the Harmon
house. The husband and father in this
big house on the hill was going away to a trade school, and when he returned he
would be an important man. No one would
be able to make things like he could and sell them to farmers, and this would
make farming more productive.
To
the surprise of those in the family who had been doing all the planning, the
young ladies started to rise up and speak their minds on the subject of their
Pa going so far away for such a long time.
Aunt Molly chimed in and spoke her likes and dislikes on the subject;
then Aunt Rona and Aunt Frankie backed their sister and said that they were
upset. “He is our Pa just the same as
yours. We are so glad he is well again
and that it is not another war he is going away to fight. We were scared, and now you know why we had
to find out it was not war again.” With
a little coaxing, all was well up to a point, but there were no more family decisions,
especially if it was about their Pa.
The
time finally arrived for the long trip to the railroad station where Grandpa
would catch the train for Charlotte, North Carolina. There he would be enrolled in a special hardware shop where he
would learn how to make useful tools for the home and for farming. This special training would take six to nine
months of tedious work. He would be
taught, and then he would do the job over and over until it met the
instructor’s approval.
Grandpa
reached Charlotte and worked hard for months.
He was hoping to reach all the requirements in record time. His instructor congratulated him on being
one of the most capable students he had taught in a long time, because he
seemed to grasp each little detail.
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The
family back home was just as interested in his progress as could be. They were showing their love for their Pa by
helping do all that they could and by cooperating in the farmwork. They wanted to have the farm in tip-top
shape when he returned home bringing with him that all-important plaque that
would hang on the wall in his little corner office. It would be self-explanatory.
It would tell the public just what this man could do to fill their
needs.
The
family was overjoyed with the thought that within a very short time the head of
the house would be home. To be sure,
each one thought to himself, “What can I do that will make Pa’s homecoming
special?” Each member of the family had
worked especially hard, and a bountiful crop would speak for itself. Grandma Betsy had put out maximum effort to
keep everything progressing at a normal pace - or preferably above normal. She did not realize that she was exhausted
until the greater part of the rush farming was almost over. Then she had reached the point where rest
alone would solve her problem. Uncle
Will was quite a dependable young man, and he could take over and put the
finishing touch on the crops, provided he would not make any important
decisions without first consulting with her.
All was well with the crops so far, and this assured the Harmon family a
bountiful harvest.
The
final letter arrived giving the exact date for Grandpa Joshua’s arrival home -
also stating that he was shipping quite a big order of tools and equipment for
his shop. This brought excitement to
the boys, more so than to the ladies, because they knew their assistance would
be valuable to Grandpa Joshua.
May
we skip at least a year or so and then return to the Salacoa Valley where a
small manufacturing establishment is in the process of opening a facility that
will bring progress to the farmers not only in that immediate vicinity but
hopefully in a large part of Georgia as well?
Tools were installed to build wagons and make plows and harnesses for
horses. Anything from wagons to screws,
bolts, and farm tools - you name it - and Grandpa Joshua could make it.
It
was unbelievable how fast the news spread that a tool shop had been opened in
the Salacoa Valley by an authorized and certified man who could make any kind
of tool farmers needed. Along with his
license, he was qualified to make or build a lot of useful appliances for use
in the kitchen, too. This would be
helpful to the housewives.
Again
we will skip several years and then take a peek at the Joshua Harmon
establishment. You will see
unbelievable progress. There are pieces
of up-to-date farm equipment, more modern than was expected by the
farmers. One of these is a two-horse
wagon that assures faster trips to markets.
This
man’s life’s dream had now become a reality.
His sons were a great help.
(Another son, Jimmy, was born two years after Grandpa got home from the
war, and then Sam came along four years later.) They could see how their Pa delighted in taking a piece of steel
or iron and molding it into something useful, even sometimes beautiful. Within a period of ten years, he was known
practically throughout North Georgia and had customers patronizing him, and to
be sure, he had a flourishing business.
The
farm did not suffer. The once
happy-go-lucky youngster named George was growing up, with all the appearance
that he was going to be quite a handsome young man. He was full of life, and he kept up his antics, playing tricks on
different members of the family. He
loved the farm and took a great interest in having things properly done at the
right time, so that meant new seeds were to be planted. It was farming time again.
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All
the children were growing up, and Grandma Betsy felt sure her advice and plans
could be turned over to Uncle Will assisted by my Pa, George. To be sure, Grandpa Joshua lent a hand in
getting the tobacco growing, as well as some cotton and corn. He still loved the farm, but his shop work
was about all he could handle, especially during the spring.
A
period of several years passed, and the Harmon farming continued at high
speed. The shop was flourishing,
too. George, my Pa, will be referred to
hereafter as Pa by me. He had reached
the ripe old age of twenty-one, and in those days young men were expected to
get a job and save their money, hoping to find a nice sweet girl and get
married. This handsome young man had
already found the pretty Emma Cook, who suited his fancies. First of all, he must get a job, and jobs
were not easy to find in those days. He
did know a Colonel Hutchinson, who lived a few miles down the road from the
Harmon family. The colonel owned several
hundred acres of farm land, and he would have need for strong farm
employees. Pa did get a job working on
this man’s farm.
Colonel
Hutchinson had ten or twelve slaves when the war was over. He freed them and gave each couple one
hundred and fifty acres of land.
Several were already married, but the others he coupled off, boy-girl,
boy-girl, if they were old enough to get married. He built each couple a small house and gave them some
furnishings, a mule, and a milk cow. He
had to force some of the former slaves to leave him. The little huts are still kept up by the present owners of this
farm until this day (1980), or they were up until the last two or three years.
This
Colonel Hutchinson was considered one of the outstanding men in the South. He was a great officer in the Confederate
Army, who informed the North that the South would never humble themselves to
the North’s boastful taunts that the South would never rise again. Men like this colonel, and others just as
eager to unite as a southern force, were determined to succeed. And in an unbelievably short time, the North
Georgia territory was seeing what cooperation could do. The State of Georgia and the southerners
were determined to surpass all expectations to live up to the pledge “to rise
again,” despite the horrible setback that had brought disruption to almost
every home in that section.
It
was at a Methodist camp meeting that Pa and Mama met. After a service, a group of young boys and girls went to the
spring for some fresh water. Aunt
Frankie, Pa’s sister, introduced her brother, George Harmon, to her new friend,
Emoline Cook. This was the most
important day in their lives! They met
each other, and they personally heard the story of God’s love and the fact that
He can change lives. These two had no
doubt that someday they would be man and wife.
Sure enough, their friendship gradually developed into a love that
surpassed these two newfound friends’ admiration for each other. Their courtship lasted over a period of
three years. The big camp meeting that
was always held in August was the most important time of the year for this
couple. The campground was about
halfway between the Cooks’ home and Grandpa Harmon’s. It was about three miles distant. At one camp meeting time Pa conspired with his sisters to ask
Grandpa if they could attend the meeting on a day when their parents were not
going. It was agreeable, and the
children were allowed to use the wagon, so all of them could go. Things began to buzz in the kitchen. They would need food if they planned to stay
for all four services. Soon a basket of
fried chicken, delicious fried apple pies, pickled peaches, and other goodies
were packed and covered with one of Aunt Molly’s homespun tablecloths.
At
the meeting, the young people from the surrounding area were made aware of the
great truths of the Bible that these men of God were bringing. The sermons were
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especially for young people and those who were not
Christians. Something unusual happened
on this special day. The services were
very spirit-filled, and many, especially women, were shouting and praising the
Lord. Miss Lotty Pittman was one of
these. All at once she just seemed to
sit down in the straw. Soon someone
noticed and picked her up. She was
dead. The family carried her to their
tent, while a casket was being made in the Reinhardt Chapel Church. She was buried the next day, but the camp
meeting continued with a sense of God’s real presence in every service. Later, it was said that Lotty told her
family, as she was making jams and jelly and other foods earlier in the year,
preparing for the ten-day camp meeting, that she was going, but something told
her she would not return to her home where she and her mother lived.
Pa
and Mama did not get to see each other often now that the services were
over. I have often wondered if these
two young people had thought about just what might happen when Grandpa Cook
realized who George Harmon was - that he was the son of Joshua Harmon, who was
wounded at Gettysburg. Also, what
Grandpa Harmon’s reaction would be when he learned Emma Cook was the daughter
of a Federalist soldier who had served as a cook in a Northern camp - and still
remained loyal to the North. This I
never heard mentioned. Perhaps each
family decided to leave it to the young lovers.
Rogan,
the family saddle horse, soon learned the way to Grandpa Cook’s home, as the
courtship continued to show deeper devotion between the two. It was during this time that Pa got into
deep trouble for voting for a Northerner for president. He had just turned twenty-one, voting age, a
few months prior to the election.
Grandpa threatened to take a leather strap and teach him a lesson he
would remember, but he cooled down, and this did not happen. The man he voted for was General Ulysses S.
Grant for president in 1873. He had
been one of the most tricky generals in the army. By his association with dishonest men, Grant brought truth to the
old southern belief that the general was a crook.
We
are going to skip about three years and pick up our story where Pa has worked
two years for Colonel Hutchinson. He
was paid the agreed sum as promised.
This was fifty cents a day, which amounted to about $180 for a
year. He also got room and board. Pa felt rich. He was in love with a beautiful girl, and they were going to be
married as soon as he could get things ready.
In the meantime, Mama was making quilts and other needed items to start
housekeeping. He had bought 150 acres
of land and then built a small house, a love nest just for the two, even if it
was not completely finished. He had
tried to get everything completed, but time would not hold up, and the wedding
day was fast approaching. What was
lacking was flooring. The two talked
the situation over and decided that all that was needed was to lay about
one-fourth of the flooring in the big room that would serve as a living room,
bedroom, and kitchen. They could put
all their furniture in the finished area and hope it would not turn cold before
they could get the rest of the work done.
The huge fireplace would give plenty of warmth. Pa, with the help of his sisters, moved
their few furnishings into the floored section of the house.
The
wedding day arrived. The happy couple
were married in the home of Rev. Milam Puckett, Methodist pastor of the
Reinhardt Chapel Church at Waleska, Georgia, in the year 1875. Little old Pa and Mama know that the
membership of this small church included some very important southerners. One was Colonel Joe Aster Sharp, as well as
another outstanding officer, Captain Augustus Reinhardt. And among the general membership were a
number of men who had faced the Northern artillery, some suffering wounds,
including Grandpa Joshua, and others less fortunate who had failed to return
from the war.
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The
Reinhardt Chapel Church was one of the few churches that General Sherman and
his destructive colleagues had failed to burn on their sweep through
Georgia. It could have escaped
destruction because it was small and built in a place so far away from the
public’s view that they passed it by.
Sherman had made his march and left his destructive mark. His plan was to destroy and to break the
spirits of the Southerners, hoping they would give up. Instead, it gave us a greater
determination. The young men, including
Pa, said, “Our fathers fought, and a lot died.
We young can take up the fight to rebuild, and, with all working
together, reconstruction will be sooner than we think.” And so with one solid front, miracles
happened.
Now,
may we return to the home of Pa and Mama.
George and Mary Emoline Harmon were married, and it seemed everything
was in their favor if the cold weather did not come before Pa could get his
needed flooring in and fill the open spaces so they could be snug and warm in
the winter. The first meal of the new
couple in their new home was a big helping of sweet milk and good mush. It was cooked in an open pot swinging from a
hook in the corner of the big fireplace where a big bed of hot coals cooked the
corn meal mush. This mush was added to
a bowl of sweet milk, and it was delicious.
Pa
had stretched $365 to the last few dollars.
He had a problem. He needed
money to buy a horse or mule. Spring
would soon come, and he would have to have something to plow with. He had spent his spare time clearing away
trees from several acres of land, and luckily several acres had been under
cultivation already. With a few more
acres, he would have enough land ready for plowing and planting in the
spring. First a garden would be planted
in well-prepared ground, and this would grow and produce food all summer. From this, Mama would prepare food for the
next winter. She would dry fruits,
beans, and peas, and they would store potatoes, sweet and Irish, making sure
that they were protected by a heavy mound of dry dirt that would insulate them
from the cold winds of winter. All of
this was foremost in their minds.
Mama
was also busy getting their new home beautiful and creating a homey appearance
with a few pictures on the walls and new white curtains that especially added a
charming atmosphere to their new home.
The fact was, the curtains were her own handiwork. She had woven them herself and stitched them
with her own fingers. Pa was delighted
over the fact that Mama could take a few little trinkets and some white
curtains and change the interior of their one-big-room home.
Spring
was coming, with the birds serenading, and Pa knew he could not delay in
getting a mule to break the new-cleared fields. This would naturally take time.
Pa, poor dear, knew that Grandpa Joshua had the money if he would lend
it to him. “Well,” he said to Mama, “I
am going to ask him to loan me $100 to buy us a mule. All he can say is yes or no.”
He started walking the one mile to his Pa’s home. A lot of fond memories, as well as sad recollections,
raced through his mind. He wasted no
time making the purpose of his visit known.
Without any hesitation Grandpa said, “No.” His reply was, “George, you know I have the money, but I feel it
best that you be on your own.”
Pa
walked out of the home. He was shocked
in a way, but he admitted that it made him feel independent, and he knew of an
old friend a short distance on down the road.
The old gentleman’s name was Joe Barron. Pa found Mr. Barron and a neighbor out in the yard talking, and
Mr. Barron remarked, “George, why are you out so early?” Pa replied, “Uncle Joe,” (an affectionate
name everyone called him) “I need $100 to buy a mule. I have my land cleared and ready, but no mule to plow to make a
crop and grow vegetables.
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I will give you a note and will pay you this
fall.” The reply was, “Yes, George, I
will let you have the money, but I do not want your note. Tom Findley has heard the conversation in
case anything should happen to one of us.
He has heard the agreement and that is good enough for me.”
While
Uncle Joe was getting his long sheepskin wallet out of his pocket, he turned to
Mr. Findley and said, “Tom, this boy would make a living if he was put on a
rock.” Pa said that right then and
there he decided that with the encouragement of these two old gentlemen and the
confidence they had in him and his ability, he could accomplish dreams that
were challenging to even hope for. They
believed in him, and little did these two men know, they had encouraged a young
man who would some day look back and thank his lucky stars that Grandpa did not
lend him the money. Later, he thanked
his dad for turning him down. Grandpa
told him, “It hurt me, George, to refuse you, but I felt it best to let you
prove your manhood.”
“With
that hundred dollar bill in my pocket I felt like a man who had found a friend
who trusted me not only with his money, but he had refused to take my note,” Pa
said. “As it happened, Mr. Findley sold
me a good young mule, and I rode it home.
Oh yes! He did not charge me the
hundred dollars. He said to take
twenty-five dollars and buy some farming tools and gear. I could not get home fast enough to tell
Mary Emoline about our good fortune. We
were so overjoyed. We just danced all
around and around, as her tears wet my shoulder.”
We
are going to skip a year and then look in at the young couple’s window before
knocking on the door. We had warned
them with weird sounds and laughter, but once inside we were rather shocked at
what was going on. Pa was all enthused
over a baby cradle that he was building.
Mama was knitting a little sweater that was so tiny her knitting needles
got tangled together. They were really
excited that soon the two would be three.
The
happy day arrived. A baby girl was
born, and believe it, they were filled with wonderment. She had red hair, and no one on either side
of the family had red hair. She was
their pride and joy. Grandpa wanted to
name her after an old girlfriend in South Carolina. Grandma Betsy did not like the idea too much, but Mama was fond
of Grandpa, so she gave his first granddaughter the name he wanted. The baby was christened Arilla Harmon. She was born August 17, 1876, and now that
there was a new baby in the house, they were doubly happy. She was born just before camp meeting time
at the big brush arbor that was told about in detail earlier. Remember, my parents had met at camp meeting
a few years before.
Mama
would carry little “Rilla” to the camp ground and put her on a bed in a
friend’s tent, and she would sleep while Mama and Pa attended the
services. It was a distressing
time. Up until this camp meeting,
everything was done in a worshipful attitude, but now the northern members
wanted to rename the Reinhardt Church and have a northern minister. About one-fourth of the members wanted the
change. It split the church. The Rhynes, Edwards, Smiths, and a number of
others took their letters out. The
Rhyne family donated several acres for a new church and cemetery. The new church didn’t seem to prosper, and
it was hard for them to get a minister.
This split brought about the name “Briar Patch” for the Reinhardt Chapel
cemetery. The northern group gave up on
reconciliation with the remark, “Just let them alone. We will just throw them in the briar patch.” At that time, Mama said, there was a huge
briar patch where the cemetery is now and right across from where the camp
ground was at that time.
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Insert: The old Briar Patch Church, United Methodist,
has been recently redesignated as the Dogwood Hills Community Church. It is located on the eastern edge of Waleska
on Highway 140.
We
will jump over a period of years. More
babies have graced the home of the Harmons.
Florrie made her debut on October 4, 1878. A son was next. He
arrived January 16, 1881, and this was a happy event. He weighed eleven pounds and was given the name Freddy
Arnold. Pa was overjoyed that this new
baby was a boy. He remarked to Mama,
“My, he will soon be big enough to go fox hunting with me.” Time was passing so fast. Nine years had sped by, and this couple
could hardly believe that they were the proud parents of three lovely
children. Arilla was walking and
talking as if she was twice her age.
She was Grandpa Joshua’s pride and joy.
Now
the one-big-room house was not adequate for a family of five. Pa began to make plans for a much larger
house. He had been successful each year
with bountiful good crops (and, oh yes, he paid Uncle Joe’s hundred dollars
that fall as promised!) Tobacco was a
good price, and, in fact, every product he carried to market was sold.
Let
us turn our attention to the home of Grandpa Joshua and Grandma Betsy and see
the changes that have been taking place in the big house on the hill. First, we find that Aunt Frankie, Pa’s
favorite sister, is among the newly-weds of the Salacoa Valley. The happy couple will make their home in
Adairsville. Also, Uncle Will is
expected to yield over his bachelorhood to take his longtime sweetheart to the
minister’s home for the purpose of being united in matrimony. He was so excited over the fact he was
really getting married. It gave Uncle
Jimmy a chance to kid him. Uncle Will
did not take it too graciously when Uncle Jimmy asked him, “Will, if you have
been in love all this time, why have you waited so long?” The reply was, “I guess you will find out
when you get in love. It just has to be
the right time and the real love.”
Grandma
Betsy, seeing her precious “babies” now grown and one by one getting married,
felt that each one of them was taking with them a portion of her very
heart. The long war years prevented her
from enjoying her children, as the times were so confused. She felt that the children, like many
others, did not enjoy feeling the freedom to enjoy being a child. That fear of the roving men who made it
their business to disturb and annoy lonely wives and distress the children had
made life miserable for them. The
children grew up lacking the privilege of going swimming in the creek in the
summertime, without the fear of riding robbers who might come calling and find
Grandma Betsy alone. This was quite a
few years in the past, but Grandma Betsy often talked to Mama about her
regrets. She spoke of those times when
she could see the fright in the eyes of Pa, who seemed to constantly have a
tell-tale look of fear.
Grandpa
Joshua had built himself a name as an expert farm tool builder or molder. In fact, he had the pattern or instructions
to build whatever anyone needed. Several years had passed since he built his
first turning plow that was the equal of one previously shipped in from out of
state. He kept his prices reasonable,
and each article was guaranteed to give satisfaction. There was no doubt that he was making money. When he made a sale, he exchanged the
currency for gold. Only Grandma Betsy
knew his profits were beyond his expectations.
His business was booming, and he was making profits from orders for
special farm equipment coming from a widespread area. This called for extra shop employees. It was really remarkable how his shop had grown.
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Now,
Grandma Betsy was greatly concerned about Grandpa’s health. He seemed to be lacking energy. He was not as vibrant as he had been. She tactfully talked with him about slowing
down, but her suggestions were met with this response, “I am fine Betz (his
nickname for Grandma).” But she knew
him too well. Her experience while nursing
him back to health was still deeply imbedded in her mind. Although seemingly he made a miraculous
recovery from the bullet wound that clipped his lung, age could have caused a
change. Maybe the scar had formed a
growth around the damaged lung.
Reluctantly, she put it out of her mind, because it seemed that he did
not like to discuss his ill health.
Now
we will go back to Pa and Mama. It
seems that we have been on a merry-go-round between the Harmon homes and what
was taking place over the past number of years.
We
left Pa in the process of building a bigger house. Now we find that the house has been completed for several
years. More babies have been born. Here are the new additions for the past
several years. Agnes Rebeka was born
July 2, 1883. Leila Florence (Note:
“Florena” in family Bible) was born January 26, 1886. Bessie Ardella was born August 4, 1888. Ethel Marie (Note: “Magnolia” on grave marker) was born December
8, 1890. It is not impossible that
there will be more. Ethel is the
youngest at the present time, and her beauty exceeds that of any of the other
girls when they were babies. Her hair
is a mass of long brown curls, and her eyes brown as chestnuts. They captured the admiration of everyone who
looked into those eyes that gave back a captivating smile. She was the darling of the home and had the
energy of a much older child. She was
only three years old and could run and play for hours.
One
night the younger children were running and playing from room to room. Ethel fell, striking the back of her head
against a bedpost. She was limp in
Mama’s arms for several hours, and she did not seem to realize what had
happened. It was hard for Mama to keep
her awake. She was so afraid that if
her baby went to sleep, she would not awaken.
Finally, after several hours, she could not keep her from going to
sleep. Holding her throughout the
night, Mama felt the little body was moist with cold perspiration. Mama was deeply concerned and wanted the
morning to come so that they could carry little Ethel to a doctor. Suddenly she went into a convulsion that
seemed never to end. Pa went for the
doctor, who was there in a short time considering the horse-and-buggy days it
was. He examined the little darling;
raised her up and told them she had meningitis. She lived for three days, but during this time she had so many
convulsions that Mama asked God to take her home with Him and out of her
suffering. She quietened from the
seizure and calmly fell asleep and was gone to be with Jesus. In a cemetery in the Salacoa Valley is a
little monument with the inscription “Ethel Magnolia Harmon, Now With
Jesus.” It was a sad home for quite a
while. She was so jolly that her
laughter was not easily forgotten.
Insert: Several Harmons are buried at what is called
the Hutchinson Cemetery on Cagle Circle just off the Salacoa Valley Road, west
of Waleska, Georgia. These Harmon
burials are: Joshua, William Cecil, James T. S., Samuel J. H., Ethel Magnolia,
and J. S.
Now
back to Grandpa Joshua again. It would
soon be time for tobacco farming to begin.
Grandpa Joshua was planning on raising a bumper crop. His extra shop assistant would not be needed
all the time in the shop. Some of his
best helpers had married, leaving Uncle Jimmy and Uncle Sam with the main
farming business. However, Aunt Molly
was an expert on “worming” the big stalks of tobacco. Sometimes there was more than one big fat tobacco worm perched on
a leaf raising its head and gritting its teeth. They did not bluff her though.
She snatched them off quicker than a wink, and on she went until
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she either had her bucket full of worms or it was
noon and time to eat dinner. She would
eat and then go back to picking worms off the tobacco plants. She was very patient. Not once did she say, “I give up. It is too hard!” Instead, she said, “Think ‘easy’ and you will find it so.” She was fast! She could work as quickly as two average people could “worm” an
entire field of tobacco. But still,
that was all she would volunteer to do toward tobacco farming. She made that very clear for several years,
and she stuck to her word. (Later, it
will be told what an asset she was in grading the leaves as they were picked
from the stalks.)
It
was a beautiful spring, and everything seemed to be moving exactly to
everyone’s advantage until one day when Uncle Jimmy became ill. The doctor pronounced his illness to be
typhoid fever. In those days it was a
dreaded disease, and it frightened the other members of the family, because
they did not know the cause of the attack.
Then too, the doctors knew very little about treatment. They had learned two causes for the dreaded
disease which caused high temperatures that soon weakened a patient, because
his entire body was sapped by the high fever.
First, doctors knew there was a mosquito that carried the typhoid
germ. If a person was bitten by this
type of mosquito, the blood was contaminated.
Second, they knew that water could have impurities in it that might
cause typhoid fever. If these impurities
got into a spring or well, they could cause the dreaded fever.
Uncle
Jimmy continued to grow worse despite the doctor’s efforts to cool the
temperature that was fast parching the once-strong and ambitious young
man. All the uninformed doctor knew to
do was to keep cold towels, soaked in water drawn from the deep well in the
backyard, on his body. The water from
the well was next to ice water, but the high temperature would soon warm the
towels. One after another was placed on
his feverish body trying to break the fever, but to no avail. Dr. Harden never left his bedside, still
trying every technique from his medical training, but Uncle Jimmy’s fighting
strength finally reached the point that he realized that God’s will was his
will, and he only said “Farewell” and was gone.
The
family felt devastated. Uncle Jimmy was
always quiet and never complained. Even
when he became ill, he did not want to admit it. Grandma Betsy was alarmed from the start. As she sat there holding his feverish hand
that almost burned hers, her mind swiftly filled with the miracle of his Pa’s
recovery. Now God had taken little
Jimmy, who was about to celebrate his twentieth birthday. He was always the smallest member in the
family, and he had never grown strong and muscular like the other boys.
It
was a sad day when the family and friends buried him in the Salacoa Valley
Community Cemetery not far from where he lived with his parents. He was always obedient. Never as a small boy did he ask, “Why must I
do this? Really it is not my duty. Let George do it. He can do it better than me.”
Perhaps he was right, but Jimmy gave every task his best, and it was
always excellent. Now he was gone. God must have needed a good extra worker
about twenty years of age by the name of Jimmy Harmon, and He called him to
fill that extra special place in heaven.
Back
to the George Harmon family. Again we
will pass on, leaving behind a few years, and check up on some of the plans
that have been hidden in the secret corners of Pa’s mind for some time. First, he was thinking of buying more land
in order to raise more tobacco. It
seemed there was a greater demand for good burley tobacco than for the other
types. Second, he was thinking about
trying his luck in manufacturing tobacco on a small scale at first to see if it
would be a profitable enterprise. He
had been successful in
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growing an excellent quality of tobacco. The prosperity of Colonel Hutchinson’s
factory and his ambitious self-esteem boosted him to attempt it on a very small
scale. He had a building large enough
to start, if he added a shed on the side that would accommodate a small
press. That would be adequate for a
start. Tobacco raised by farmers in his
community, plus Grandpa Joshua’s crop, would be a sufficient supply to give him
an idea of what it would be like.
Grandpa would be very valuable in helping to get the materials he would
need, such as shapes to press the tobacco into plugs. Also, the press would be no problem. Perhaps only an extra order of iron would be needed to make the
press and the huge round ball that gave sufficient weight to form a solid mold
into shapes.
Now
he had to come up with the right formula for his tobacco product. Choice leaves from the stalks were placed in
wooden bins and sprinkled with Pa’s own formula, which consisted of so much of
the following ingredients: brown sugar, licorice, peach juice, honey, and a
small amount of salt. He tested the
tobacco as it went through the processing in the big wooden bins. He would take the leaves out, twist them
into firm twists and then have people who chewed tobacco test them and tell him
what their taste buds revealed. He
asked for their likes and dislikes after the test. Their decisions would go a long way in testing his formula. Many tests were made before he got the right
consistency of flavors blended perfectly, and he was satisfied with his
formula.
Now
he was ready to set up the press and the thin wooden shapes that were made into
standard plug lengths. Each one held
six plugs. After being compressed for
the exact time, a sharp steel knife was used to cut the tobacco that was still
in the shapes into six standard sized plugs.
His
tobacco-making operation was now in full swing, and it was ready for the
inspector who would be calling soon to check every little detail from the
tobacco on the stalk to the formula used and the tobacco in the bins. A government representative came to pay a
call on the George Harmon tobacco manufacturing establishment. As expected, he arrived on time with stamps,
seals, and Pa’s private stamp that was to be used to put his personal
identification on each box. It appeared
he was in no hurry to finish. There was
something intriguing about the setup and the aroma that was coming from the
huge wooden boxes or bins. He seemed to
be fascinated with the method used to classify the tobacco leaves as they were
pulled from the stalks. He was coming
for a resumé, and that was exactly what his report contained.
One
year passed. It went swiftly, as if an
invisible curtain had been lifted and the time was gone. Let us try to find out more about the
manufacturing of tobacco. With the
first year as past history, we find an encouraged man who feels there is a
future for him in this field. Farmers
are harvesting their bumper crops of tobacco, and Pa is quite excited to see
the sun-cured product being unloaded and stacked in the one big room where
hired help is coming in to learn what it is all about. The first year he only had jobs for about
twenty people. The manufacturing season
only lasted through the three summer months after crops were harvested. Now young girls and women were coming in to
learn the art of grading the leaves as they were pulled from the stalks.
This
will give a better understanding of what took place after the tobacco was cut
in the field. The farmers had built
racks in open, sunny locations, and they would hang the stalks across the racks
to let them dry to a bright yellow.
Then the farmer would pull the leaves from the bottom to the top until
both his hands were full. Finally, he
would take one long, strong leaf from the lot, put all the leaves in one hand
and tie the butts together by wrapping the one leaf around and around until the
leaf was tight, then tuck the remaining
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end through the under wrap to hold it securely. When the tobacco was brought into the
factory, it went through a sprinkling process to keep it from crumbling when
handled during the classifying process.
Each leaf was then classified according to quality. Three women were there to do the
grading. The first woman selected only
the brightest leaves from each tied “hand.”
These were placed in a bin. The
second woman chose the next brightest leaves and placed them in a separate
bin. The third woman took the last
leaves or “lugs” and placed them in a third bin. Leaves placed in the third bin were used to make pipe tobacco.
When
the bins were full, they were ready to have the flavoring formula applied and
the covers placed on securely for the coming-in-case process. The women would then fill each “shape” with
smooth, straight leaves to a depth that when compressed would be the right
thickness for plug tobacco. The pipe
tobacco was flavored when formed into twists while still moist. It was pressed in the same manner as the
plugs, except that it was not cut. A
pipe smoker would take his knife and cut enough off the twist to fill his
pipe. This was a two-fold type. If anyone wanted to chew it, they could, and
quite a few people took advantage of a tobacco that could either be used in a
pipe or for chewing.
These
three types of tobacco had brand names.
The twist was called “Farmer’s Friend,” and it immediately made a hit
with pipe smokers as much as with mild chewers. The second brand was called “Peaches and Honey.” Its flavor was very different from the other
brands. The formula consisted of brown
sugar, peach compound, licorice, and honey, with the peach flavor more
outstanding. Farmers had a special
preference for this brand, so it was a good seller at country stores. “Harmon’s Best” was the name given to the
third brand. This was made from the
first quality tobacco leaves. The
brightest leaves were selected from the “hands” and placed in the bin for
processing to produce “Harmon’s Best” plug tobacco. This brand was flavored with specific measures and weights of
brown sugar, peach concentrate, licorice, and honey. This was the best seller, despite the difference in price between
“Harmon’s Best” and “Peaches and Honey,” which was made from first grade
tobacco also, but not all bright colored leaves. It was the same quality, just a darker brown color that made the
chew a little less palatable, because it was a little stronger.
The
factory was establishing a name throughout North Georgia as far away as Rome,
where a salesman called every two months.
His means of delivery was a covered wagon properly equipped by Grandpa
Joshua with shelves built two boxes high on each side. Then there was space in the bottom for quite
a number of boxes stacked against the shelves.
These boxes contained a mixed variety.
The salesman sold these boxes first.
Each box had its own government seal, as well as Pa’s own private stamp
with his name along with the factory number and name of the brand. The extra-special “Harmon’s Best” was
exceptionally popular. As was expected,
it was selling better than the other two.
The salesman, Mr. Jones, kept a plug cut into several pieces to show
there was no faking. It was solid
golden yellow throughout the plug. The
same demonstration was done with the “Peaches and Honey” brand.
The
business was growing, and this called for more room by the next season. A rush order for thousands of feet of
building material was placed, and carpenters were hired to build a two-story
manufacturing building that would be needed to meet the growing business in the
future. Also, there was a huge curing
building to be built, called a tobacco barn, where the tobacco would be cured
or ripened. Heat would be used, and the
building would be kept dark. This
process would retain the flavor better than when the leaves were dried in the
open air and sunshine, and it would only take half the time to ripen and cure
the
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leaves. The
leaves still had to be pulled from the stalks and tied in “hands.” Then they were placed on tiers in the new
tobacco barn. These tiers were made
from small pine trees. After the trees
were cut into six-foot lengths, the pine was split by ax and wedge to the size
of a man’s wrist, and the tiers were put in the walls of the barn from one side
to the other. They were placed four
feet apart beginning six feet from the ground.
The “hands” of tobacco were spread from the middle and put over the
split sticks, leaving a distance between the racks so that heat could
circulate. When the barn was filled, it
amounted to thousands of pounds of green tobacco that would come out a bright
golden yellow.
Now
as to the heat system for curing the tobacco, flues were built along each side
the length of the barn. The flues were
built with rocks and mud and braced all along with iron structures to
strengthen the top of the flue. Long
pieces of wood cut to reach up into the flue were put into place, and then it
was time to light the fire that would heat the furnaces and turn the tobacco a
bright yellow as the heat dried the sap from the leaves.
The
big two-story manufacturing plant was completed and ready for an extra number
of employees. All of this was thought
about back in the spring when Pa was planting a watermelon patch. He had in mind some changes he was going to
make when the new plant opened the first of June. After everyone had learned just what his job was and had a pretty
good knowledge of everything in general, Pa gave his employees a thirty minute
recess in the morning. There was
another recess in the afternoon, with one hour off for dinner. Twelve hours was considered a working day. If he gave two hours for recreation and free
time during the day, he believed that the employees would be refreshed. They could go to the orchard for fruit or
cut a juicy watermelon taken from a stack under the big shade tree. If none of this suited them, then there was
a croquet game in the front yard, or perhaps horse shoe pitching or a game of
checkers. And this was not all, but I
will leave the rest for another time.
The employees would almost run to get back to work, and this was
evidence that the “time out,” as Pa called it, was paying off. Pa could see that his employees, relaxed and
rested, appreciated their jobs and were willing to work a little harder. It turned out to be the profitable thing to
do.
The
new season was quite different, with new faces on all sides, but it was
remarkable how the new hands fitted right in and soon were turning out good
work - almost equal to some of the professionals who had been with the little
manufacturing company since the first days.
There were now between thirty-five and forty people working in the
factory. The expansion had added so
much more room for the extra amount of tobacco that it would twice exceed the
output before the new addition. The
bins were three times the size of the first bins. It seemed that Pa had reached that long-awaited dream of putting
out a product that was everything that he had hoped for.
He
wanted to hear first-hand what the customers around the sales area had to say
about his product, and so he would go out himself to check with the
public. He found it very encouraging. The salesmen had not been exaggerating. His brands were quite different and not too sweet. He came back all enthused and told Mama, “We
are on our way.” He heard no complaints
about prices, not even for “Harmon’s Best,” which had a sizeable price tag on
it along with his personal guarantee stamp.
He was sure to at least double his output for the coming season.
Now
Pa could turn at least part of his attention to a valuable project that would
meet an important need. There were four
young ladies and a son who needed preparations for their education. The plan was to build a big room that would
later serve as a kitchen and a
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dining room for the house he planned to build
eventually in Waleska. He had bought
three acres of land on Cartersville Street in Waleska. He planned to build the large room with
dividers for privacy for the boys and girls.
Carpenters were hired to rush the building so that it would be ready by
the fall school opening at Reinhardt College.
The
room was completed, and furnishings and supplies were moved in. This would be a home away from home from
Monday morning until Friday afternoon for daughters Arilla, Florrie, Agnes, and
Leila.
Now
that the tobacco manufacturing season was drawing to an end, the workers had
their own crops to harvest. They had
cotton and peas to pick and syrup cane to get to a mill to be made into sorghum
syrup. There were also various other
duties. Within a few days the bins
would all be empty, and the big heavy doors
would swing shut until the next summer.
The tobacco had been processed and packed in boxes for the salesman to
continue to deliver. There would be
enough to keep him on the road until winter weather stopped his rounds.
Quite
often on Saturdays during the winter season, Pa and my brother Fred would pack
a variety of each brand of tobacco and take off for a day’s journey to three or
four country stores within a few miles of each other. It was easy to make the round in one day. On one particular trip they had to cross the
Etowah River. The bridge crossing the
river was being moved upstream, because the road was being changed. A ferry boat was used to tow traffic across
the river while the bridge was being completed. Fred was in his early teens, and he felt ten feet tall when Pa
let him drive the team of mules. He sat
back with the lines in his hand, and occasionally he gave the big mules a slap
with the lines to make them pick up speed.
He was doing such a good job guiding the team around the curves that Pa
fell asleep. Suddenly the team surged
forth, and luckily Pa woke up and realized that the wagon was within three
lengths of going off into the river. If
he had not waked up, Fred would have driven into the river carrying team,
wagon, tobacco, and the two passengers as well. Needless to say, these two travellers were in a turmoil, and they
were overjoyed to see a ferry boat coming from the other side to safely tow
their team and the covered wagon across the river. It was not surprising to Pa to have Fred turn the reins over to
him with the remark, “I don’t want to drive any more.”
Pa
had the opportunity to talk with customers and find out, to his great surprise,
that he needed to expand his tobacco factory.
Men operating the stores he called on that day gave him the
encouragement to enlarge his operation so his regulars would not be
disappointed when they asked for a George Harmon brand, whether it was
“Harmon’s Best” or the lowly “lug” pipe tobacco. This was the most inferior brand, all dark, but it had a special
treatment that gave it a good taste when it was smoked, and it left a sweet
aroma in the room. His tobacco products
were selling. It was this way in the
towns as well as in the country. He
could hardly wait until the spring to get the seed bed ready!
Let’s
pass on for a few years and concentrate on the youngsters that we then referred
to as “weekend family.” They were doing
real well in school so far - reasonable grades for some and extra good grades
for others. The president of the little
struggling college was one of the highest qualified administrators in that
section. He knew every student by name:
those living in the dormitories as well as those living in the little town of
Waleska. He was thinking of the youth
and the necessity of a good education to meet the future challenges that would
confront each boy and girl along life’s path.
He tried to instill in their minds the idea that among present students
there were boys who, if they prepared themselves, could be leaders in the state
and in the United States government.
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How
right he was. Years later a member of
the graduating class of 1899 was elected to the United States Senate from the
State of Georgia. His name was Wade
Fergerson. He later stated that the
encouragement he received from dedicated teachers at this little college and
from special friends like my father gave him the determination to go for the
top. I have a letter he wrote to Pa
asking about politics. This letter was
dated August 2, 1928. He was asking if
Hoover would carry Cherokee County.
This question was followed by the statement, “George, we need to do some
housecleaning up here in Washington.”
He knew his old friend was interested in education and that deep down he
was hoping that at least some of his children would have the determination to
graduate from Reinhardt.
Pa
was halted between two opinions. What
should be done next? Should he take his
mind off tobacco long enough to plan the building of the house in Waleska,
since Bessie and Sam were growing up and the little two-teacher school was
unable to give services except to students in the lower grades. It was not a hard decision, since the
education of his children was foremost in his priorities. He drew the plans and built the house -
which included the big room that was already built.
There
were two stories with three bedrooms upstairs with large closets. These closets were built inside the three
gables that adorned the front of the second story facing the street and above
the porch. Also, there was a family
living room and one bedroom downstairs.
Chimneys reached from the ground to the second story with fireplaces in
each bedroom and a huge fireplace in the family room. The fireplaces were built of soapstone that came from a quarry a
few miles from Waleska. After winter
fires were no longer needed, my sisters would scrape the charred soot from the
smooth interior of the fireplaces and put wild flowers and ferns inside
them. This made the rooms cozy and
pretty. There was also a big dining
table that was an ideal place for studying and writing. Above this table there was a big circular
lamp hanging from the ceiling.
Now
that the house was completed, the girls liked their new bedrooms and nice roomy
closets built inside the gables. They
were all excited with their new home.
It was the third two-story house in Waleska, and these young ladies were
thrilled to be living in one of the prettiest homes in the little town.
The
town’s people gave it the name “Three Gables.”
It was painted white with chocolate brown trimming. Luck seems to have been with the “Three
Gables.” It has passed down through
quite a few owners, because I have kinda kept an eye on that special
house. I say special, because it is the
home where I was born over eighty years ago.
It is still in excellent condition, considering the number of families
that have called it home. To look at
the house through my eyes, I say, “I’m so glad that you have been lucky to have
sheltered so many, young and old, and still look so great. And oh, one other thing. I have never passed by when you looked like
you needed a new coat of paint, and so I give my innermost thanks to one and
all.”
It
wasn’t long before more small shacks were being converted into homes where
families could be together. The Sharp
brothers had the first grocery store in the town. Later, they enlarged their building and added a dry goods
section. Dr. Moore, the town physician,
erected a small grocery store at what was called Five Points; where Canton Road
crossed Cartersville Road, with another road to the right going to Ball
Ground. His business was managed by Mr.
Lewis, a man who had a son and daughter in school at Reinhardt Academy. Next, a big booster for the little town was
built. It was a general store owned by
W. A. Bearden and R. T. Jones. Mr.
Jones owned and operated the big-
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gest general store in Canton. Why tell all this? It meant that people in the community could go to school there
and also buy anything from a pencil to stylish clothes and shoes right in their
own hometown. Of course, they could
also buy “Harmon’s Best” plug tobacco and “Farmer’s Friend” smoking tobacco,
too.
Pa
had rented the old family home to a special friend who was supposed to be his
assistant in the factory and also help with the farming. And now it was going to be inconvenient for
him to commute morning and night by horseback from Waleska to the tobacco
factory three miles away. Now he was
thinking seriously of building a factory in Waleska. He had room to build on the property on which he had built the
house.
He
started to put the project in motion.
First, he drew the plans in every detail. The sills and sleepers would be sawed from oak trees, and the
framing and boxing would be out of forest pine growing on his own land. It would take a rather large crew to cut the
trees and get them to a sawmill located on the next farm. He was jubilant over the thought of the
setup he had in mind. Now he had to sit
down and figure out just what he needed to build the new factory.
This
sounds like a big undertaking for a man who never attended school except for
six months. Even then, the only book he
had was the Blue Back Speller. He could
spell every word within the bindings of the speller. The longest word was nineteen letters long. It was “incomprehensibility.” As the older children had learned how to
read, they had taught their Pa reading as well. Then as they advanced in arithmetic, learning the multiplication
tables, he worked right along with them.
During
the time he was building the factory on the farm, he learned how to draw
blueprints for a building, from the sills to the shingles on the roof. He admitted it was not easy, but he was
determined not to go through life handicapped in ways he could prevent. He learned little by little and step by
step. He knew he had the ability to
learn a lot from his building crew, and it seemed to be a pleasure for them to
assist him in his determination to be versed in carpentry. With the blueprints drawn, all he needed was
the building materials. The trees were
cut and at the sawmill.
We
will leave the new building plans for the present and go back to the Salacoa
Valley and see what was happening at the home of Grandpa Joshua and Grandma
Betsy. To our sorrow, we find Grandpa
wasn’t feeling too well. He was having
to slow down due to fatigue, and Grandma Betsy was quite concerned. He tried to reassure her it was just a case
of spring fever, and he would soon be eating more and sleeping like a
baby. She knew it was more than spring
fever and tried hard to pass it off as he wished her to, but remembering the
war wound he received had given her cause for concern. He continued to work in his shop, but he let
a young man be hired and trained to do most of the work. Grandpa could depend on him to practically
take over, with very little help from him.
Aunt
Molly and Uncle Sam were still living at home.
Aunt Molly had vowed she was perfectly content to be an old maid. She had said, “What would Ma Betsy do
without me to help her with all the milking, washing, ironing, and all the big
Sunday dinners?” Sunday after Sunday the
big crowds came expecting a big feast.
Mama used to tell about a funny thing that happened on one
occasion. It seems that Aunt Molly had
cooked a big pot of fresh backbones and ribs, but the bowls were empty and
folks were still eating. Grandma Betsy
got up from the table and sliced big pieces from the hog’s jowls that had been
cooked to make press-meat. This didn’t
suit Aunt Molly at all, and she could be heard
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saying, “If I live ‘til tomorrow, I’m going to
souse-up my hog’s head.” Every time
anyone took a piece of the meat she got a little louder, but no one seemed to
hear above the laughing and talking.
This was one of Mama’s special remembrances about Aunt Molly. She recalled that it was a time never to be
forgotten, because it was so funny.
Winter
was over now, and Mother Nature was trying to say, “It’s Spring!” As people walked along the country road, the
air was full of the sweet aroma coming from the beautiful pink and white
crabapple blossoms, while the limbs swayed to and fro in the warm
sunshine. Aunt Molly would get limbs
from the trees and decorate the “big room” (“living room” we call it now) on
Sunday. They never knew who would come
on Sunday.
Pa
liked to tell about how he would tease his sister about getting married. Once she told him that if he didn’t quit
bothering her about men, she was never going to make him another pie. She knew he liked apple pie, and she always
made these for him. She won. Pa knew she wasn’t joking, so he stopped his
teasing. He loved his sister and would
often say to others, “She is my special sister, but the other sisters don’t
know it.” During the war when the Home
Guards would come calling with their loud cursing and going from room to room
kicking over chairs, Aunt Molly would take Pa in her arms, pressing his head
against her body and putting her hand over his other ear, shielding him from a
lot of the noise. And with her apron
she obscured from his vision the horrible looking tramps. It was easy to see that there was a bond
between this sister and her younger brother.
He was only ten years old at the time, and she tried to protect him.
Back
home in Waleska, it was really spring.
Everyone was all excited.
Commencement at the college was just around the corner. Students were getting ready by practicing
plays, speeches, songs, and other things.
The public and parents would be invited to see the children
perform. My oldest sister, Arilla, was
to be in the first program. She was to
give a comical reading using hand actions to bring out some of the funny
points. It was a hit. She finished with cheers and laughter. Her Mama and Pa watched and cheered as their
firstborn stepped to the front of the stage and took a bow. Then she walked off the stage, down the back
steps, and into the arms of her soon-to-be husband, Albert Elrod. Later it came out that her cousin Virgil
Harmon had carried letters secretly from one to the other and played the
central part in their courtship.
When
Mama and Pa reached home, they found a note she had slipped under the door
telling them she was on her way to get married. They were so stunned that they were speechless. Soon the other members of the family reached
home full of glee and pride, yelling for their sister and saying, “Didn’t
everyone like her reading?” Then they
realized that something had happened.
Mama was crying, and Pa was sitting there without a word. Mama handed Florrie the note, and she read
it aloud to the rest. It told that
Arilla was on her way to be married.
She stated that she loved Albert dearly and that life without him would
be unbearable. She told Pa she loved
him and Mama, but Albert came first.
She could not go on to school and risk losing him. She expressed the thought that maybe the
others would continue and graduate, and she ended by saying, “I love all of
you. Please forgive me.”
This
was a shock that left the family in turmoil.
Finally, Pa asked the others one by one if they knew of Rilla’s
plans. No one had the slightest idea
that she was even in love. He asked
Florrie, her next oldest sister, and she replied that she was as surprised as
anyone. Pa’s response was, “Our family
circle is broken. I had such plans for
our children, Emma.” Taking his wife by
the hand as she tried to smile at him through her misty eyes, he struggled to
keep the tears from revealing his deep emotion. Then he spoke
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in a whisper, “Emma dear, it seems such a short time
since our firstborn, a little redhead, came to bless our humble little
home.” Then the tears ran down his
handsome face as Mama tried to comfort him, saying, “We have four more
girls. We must think of how fortunate
we are. Rilla made her choice. Now we must give our love and trust to the
rest and tell them we are expecting them to finish their education before
considering marriage.”
Then
Pa said to the youngsters, “That was the purpose of building this house and
moving to Waleska - to educate our children.
Your Mama and me hope you will listen to our plea and stay in school. An education will prepare each of you for a
better chance to find a place of leadership in life that will mean
promotion. Don’t you remember me
telling you as children that giant oaks grow from tiny acorns? Be an acorn, and when you walk off the
stage, it will not be down the back stairs as your sister has done tonight, but
down the front steps with a diploma in your hands that will qualify you to be a
giant oak in your country, no matter what you decide to be or do. You can use that diploma as a stepping stone
for a life of usefulness and opportunities for young people that will be beyond
your expectations. You see your Pa is
an example of the need for an education.
There were no good schools when I was growing up. The Blue Back Speller was the only book I
ever had. I learned to spell, but what
good is spelling if you can’t read? But
you see, six months was all I attended school.
When you learned to spell the words in this one book, you graduated, so
to speak. You all are teaching me, and
little by little I am going to read, as I continue to let each one take their
turn helping me to learn to do arithmetic, writing, and so on. It will give you a good review to go back to
your grade school years. I hope you can
enjoy it as much as I do.”
Things
at the house of “Three Gables” were almost back to normal. The Harmons were trying to adjust to the
vacant chair at the big table in the dining room. (Oh! I must add that this
big dining table was a surprise gift from Grandpa Joshua as a housewarming
present when the family moved into the new home in Waleska. The top was made of heart pine. The legs were handcarved and were made from
heart pine, also, with a highly polished natural color finish.) Rilla’s chair was moved out and the plates
placed a little farther apart to fill the vacancy.
Now
that spring had come, the farmers were rushing to get things planted,
especially the tiny tobacco plants that had to be transplanted into the soft
loamy soil in the fields. This was the
most important job, getting these tiny plants to live. Pa was trying to get back to his normal
self, but his disappointment was easy to see.
He had very little to say, and Mama was trying to get his mind on the
other daughters and their two sons. One
evening she said, “Rilla preferred marriage to an education. Now let us cheer up and be happy
again.” Pa’s reply was, “I agree. We do
have others to think of and love. Now
let us all work together, having no more secrets. Will everyone promise?” A
big “Yes” promise went up.
Nothing
had been mentioned about the plans to build the tobacco factory at
Waleska. The spring was summer now, and
Pa’s plans seemed to be bogged down from lack of interest. Mama hesitated to ask if the plan was just
on the drawing board or if he had postponed his plan to build
indefinitely. Finally, she did ask, and
his answer was, “We’ll see how everything works out.” He seemed to have doubts about something. Was he thinking about crop failures that
would mean less tobacco and less work for his employees? She could only hope that her guess would be
wrong.
We
have not been to visit Grandpa Joshua and his ever-devoted little Betsy for a
while. She has now become more
concerned, as the days pass into months, at the changes
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in Grandpa.
He has been losing weight as well as strength. He seldom goes to his shop now.
He had built his shop below the house near a little branch of water in
order to have it for the shop. The
branch came down from a big spring that was higher up on the mountain and came
dashing over the rocks. The water made
music as it tumbled down, and if a person would take the time to stop and
listen, it was beautiful. But Grandma
knew that walking back up the hill from the shop was too much for him. Then too, he had to rest longer after the
walk back to the house.
The
orders for tools were dropping off, but Grandpa didn’t seem to notice. And his assistant would make it appear that
he was busy when Grandpa was around. He
was trying to make his boss happy. It
was this assistant who talked to Grandpa’s doctor after he had examined
him. The doctor told him that Grandpa
was a very sick man. He said his
illness was caused by the wound he received during his war days. He knew something was enlarging in his right
lung and that it would soon cause his death.
He didn’t want to tell his wife, but he believed she knew already. He said, “She pulled Joshua through the
bullet wound, but he was younger and stronger then. We doctors don’t know what is happening inside, and even if we
did, there isn’t anything we could do for him.” The assistant asked, “Will you tell his son George right
away? I think the family should know he
has only a short time to live.” It was
true; Grandma could see how fast he was losing in every respect, but he tried
to make believe that he would soon be better.
He would tell them, “I feel a lot better some days.”
Mama
loved her husband’s parents. They had
accepted her as another special daughter added to the family, so the love was
mutual. She looked to her father-in-law
for advice in counseling her girls especially.
She spent as much time as possible with him, and when she would leave to
go home to see how the girls were getting along with the housekeeping, he would
always say, “Hurry back Sissie (Grandpa’s pet name for Mama), I will miss you.”
As
he gradually grew weaker, it seemed his chest on the right side was so big it
looked like he had a pillow under his shirt.
It was pushed up so that he could not turn his head. His chin rested on his collar bone, and
still he believed another miracle would come, and he would be well again.
Grandpa
accumulated a small fortune after going to school and learning tool
craftmanship. Farmers needed good tools
to produce better crops, and they needed home appliances as well. He would take paper bills and exchange them
for gold at the bank. He was rather shy
about anyone outside the immediate family knowing of his success as a master
farm tool maker. Not even his devoted
wife Betsy knew how much gold was in the sheepskin pouch he kept. She told their children that he had tried to
tell her several times, but she would put her finger over his lips, always
telling him she did not want to know how much gold he had or where he kept the
sheepskin pouch. She just assumed it
was safely tucked away, and when he was ready to bring it out, he would do so.
Mama
had to be home to help get ready for the summer tobacco manufacturing to
begin. The opening date was the first
Monday in June. Everything was ready,
and each old employee had been notified.
This meant short visits to see Grandpa Joshua.
The
girls all took their usual places at the classifying bins with dear old
faithful Aunt Molly at bin number one.
She took pride in the fact that she had the authority to keep a careful
eye on down the line to the last bin to see that her helpers were on their jobs
grading carefully. It was a good
opening. The first week passed as if
it had flown on
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wings. There
were no hitches and no lagging, as would have been expected for the first week.
Mama
had quite a job at home. She missed the
girls helping. She had to do all the
meal planning and prepare all the lunch boxes.
These had to be filled with a substantial variety of foods for working
people.
Everything
in general seemed to be working out for Pa.
He had been deeply concerned about Grandpa, but to the joy of both
families, his father had improved considerably. Grandma Betsy contributed his improvement to the fact that he was
eating more. It seemed she had coaxed
him into snacking between meals, and it had worked. Speaking of snacking, the “factory family” was enjoying the usual
“time out” periods. Even though the
Harmons did not live in the house, Pa had planted the watermelon patch so that
the melons would ripen during the factory work time. Fruit for all was in the orchard, and the croquet yard was set up
for playing. Everything was set up just
like the last year.
To
everyone it was amazing to see that summer was almost gone, but Florrie was
overjoyed. The tiresome trips out to
the factory and back home to Waleska were almost over. Florrie said, “You bet I’ll be glad!” The others didn’t speak their minds as she
did, but that was Florrie. Leila chimed
in and said, “Florrie, remember we need clothes, tuition, and lots of other
things. We should be glad to help all
we can.” Agnes said in a low voice,
“Shouldn’t we all be willing to help?
Don’t tell Pa how Florrie feels.
He is just beginning to be his old self, jolly and cheerful and joking
occasionally, and I am so glad he is getting over Arilla.”
Pa
was expecting the government agent any day for his final inspection. Instead, he received a letter from the
inspector stating that due to the shortness of time until closing day for his
factory, he was authorizing him to stamp not only his personal stamp, but due
to the accuracy of quality of his tobacco, he was authorized to fill out the
report using the government inspector’s blank.
Pa was to put the government stamp in the proper place and then use the
inspector’s stamp to cancel the government stamp. He was to mail the form back to the inspector in a self-addressed
envelope. The letter ended with,
“Hoping you had a good season.
Respectfully yours, James Hordan.”
To be sure, Pa felt very proud of his trust. But why shouldn’t he be trusted?
He had never had any corrections made by the inspectors during the years
he had been manufacturing tobacco.
The
saleman had been rather slow in delivering, and several hundred boxes were
still stacked in the factory. This
meant that Pa would have to be at the factory only on the days they started
deliveries and when they returned. Thus
would give him more time to spend with his father. It was a short mile to his house, and, back in those days, it was
a nice walk.
Back
home in Waleska, school had opened at Reinhardt College once again, and the six
Harmons, two boys and four girls, were anxious to see everybody. It was like one big family with all the hugs
and hellos. Mama told me how funny it
was just to hear what each one had done or experienced over their summer
vacation. Some things were funny, and
some not so humorous. Several had been
working during vacation. There were
also new classmates galore. The campus
was covered with new faces, which meant new faculty members had been added to
take care of the larger enrollment.
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President
Sharp was overjoyed to see so many new students. The enrollment was almost double that of the past year. Captain A. M. Reinhardt, the founder of the
little college, was a life-long resident of Waleska. He founded the college mainly for mountain boys and girls. Reinhardt was built in the “front yard,” so
to speak, of the termination of the beautiful Blue Ridge Mountains. It could well be called “the jumping off
place,” since a huge ledge of white rock abruptly ends the Blue Ridge Mountains
at this point. Many times the students
would gather on the west campus in the fall and watch the beautiful rays of the
sun as it set over the highest peak.
After the sun had said, “Goodnight,” and disappeared, the long golden
rays seemed to reach up to heaven. So
the students would say, as they marvelled at such beauty. This made a perfect setting for a Vespers
Service of worship. Then they retired
to their rooms and books.
Let
us return to the house where all the activities of the Harmon family took
place. Years later, I asked Mama what
it was like to have so many grown-ups around laughing and fussing - and how she
got by without showing partiality. She
often told me, “It wasn’t hard to tell who was right.”
One
day she announced to Pa that she was going with him to the farm the next
day. “I want to see Pa Joshua. I have something to tell him. The girls can cook their dinner for one
day.” Sometimes she wondered if, as
parents, they were expecting too much of their children, but they were normal,
and why should she worry? They were
making good grades. Mama had not told
the girls they were going to have a little brother or sister. She wondered how they were going to take the
news. Would they be glad or
resentful? Sam had been the baby, as
they teasingly called him, for seven years.
What would her grownup children think?
But she had decided that Grandpa Joshua would be the second person to
hear the big news. The next morning she
and Pa rode off in a new buggy. The new
buggy would be a surprise, but the fact that a new grandchild was expected was
going to be an even bigger one.
She
found Grandpa sitting on the side of his bed when she walked in. She went over to his bed and took a seat
beside him. Then she reached over and
planted a big kiss on his cheek. It seemed to please him. He looked at her and repeated his usual
welcome, “Emmie, I’ve missed you.” She
gave him another kiss on the other cheek and told him, “I have some news, and I
am wondering what you will think.”
“Tell me,” he said, “From you I bet it’s going to be good news.” Without hesitating she told him he was going
to be a grandpa again. He looked
surprised and then he replied, “I hope it’s a boy, Emmie. We need some more boys to carry on the
Harmon name.” Then he stood up, taking
Mama by the arms, and tried to dance around.
But he only made a few steps.
Mama got him back to the bed. He
was exhausted. He was very weak but
still seemed to believe he would get better.
Mama could see he was losing some of the vitality he had built up such a
short time ago. Grandma Betsy knew how
much they cared for each other, so she made her presence scarce and let the day
be a time for their togetherness. The
day passed as if it had been on wings.
Pa soon came for her. He spent
only a short time as the evening was far spent - and, too, he ate dinner with
his parents every few days and got to visit with them.
They
started toward home, but Mama rode a long distance without any
conversation. Pa could see the change
in his father too. Mama seemed to
realize in her second father (as she so often referred to him), there was pain
he was desperately trying to hide. She
finally broke the silence with sobs that could not be avoided. She was deeply saddened by the setback that
had broken his lengthy period of improvement.
Her halting words were, “George, I’m not going to stay away this long
any more. He means too much to me. It is plain to see that he cannot live much
longer unless he gets relief from the pain.
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It seems to be a continuous agony he can no longer
hide.” Then she thought, Dr. Harden’s
weekly call was only two days away, and perhaps he would add a little to his
medication that would help him sleep more.
Grandpa thought sleep would take care of the weakness that was plagueing
him, so he would rally again. Whether
he really believed it or not, he was probably just trying to cheer up the
family. After this, Pa left the
clearing and the factory work to his assistant and spent more time with
Grandpa.
Fall
had passed, and it was now the winter season.
And Christmas was just a few weeks away. It seemed that there was an atmosphere of tension around the
Harmon house. Both Mama and Pa had an
uneasy feeling that there was something wrong at school. Something had happened, and someone had
forgotten the pledge each individual made to not keep important problems or
secrets from their parents. They hoped
their intuition was wrong. But not for
long, as their hopes were shattered when Fred came home one day from drill
practice fuming mad. He and his drill
commandant had had an argument over Fred’s failure to follow instructions.
Up
to this point, nothing has been mentioned about Reinhardt College being a
military school. As has been told, the
founder was Captain A. M. Reinhardt.
His desire was to encourage the building of small colleges across the
country where young men could get an education, as well as learn preparedness
in case of another war. Boys and men
would know the tactics of war at least to a small degree. Those who had a little knowledge could be
taught more easily and quickly by army men, and armies could be assembled
within a few months for active service.
The commandant was an army captain who knew what it took to be a good
soldier. Perhaps Captain Reinhardt was
thinking of the lessons of the Civil War when he asked the federal government
for support. Fortunately, it was
granted.
Anyway,
the military discipline of the school was the reason for Fred’s disappointing
his parents and the other members of the family. Pa informed Fred he should be ready to accompany him to see just
what the trouble was. To be sure, Fred
objected, but he was told not to slip off, or he would regret it. Fred refused to go. “I will quit school. I am not going,” he told Pa. But he was forced to go. The instructor was very nice, adding, “I did
not require any more from Fred than I require of each drill unit.” Pa thanked him and told him Fred should have
followed his instructions. Then he
said, “I stand by you as a student’s father should, when that student refuses
to carry out drill regulations along with the other cadets in his
company.” So Fred, know-it-all as he
had always been, preferred to quit school rather than admit he was wrong.
“Again,
Emma, another one of our children quitting school,” Pa said. He gave his son an alternative, “Go back to
school or get you a job, Fred. My life
was completely dedicated to my children and their education. Now less than a year has passed, and another
disappointment has come to me.” Fred’s
reply was, “Pa, you and Mama know I love you.
But I prefer to live my life as I choose.” Pa commented, “It is too much to accept. From now on, it seems a guessing game as to
who will be next, Emma.”
The
next day Fred told Pa he could get a job on Grandpa Joshua’s farm. Perhaps Uncle Sam needed another helper, and
Grandpa would give him a job. And he
did. Now there was another vacant chair
at the table. It seemed Fred’s presence
at the table was not all that was missing.
He was the big brother to the girls, but Sam grinned as he waved goodbye
and yelled, “Now I just have one less boss.”
But the girls asked Sam, “What are you going to say when you have to
bring all the wood upstairs by yourself?”
His reply was, “If you get cold enough, you will be looking for the
woodstack. It’s just around the corner,
back of the house. It won’t be hard to
find. Ha! Ha!”
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If
possible, seeing Fred quit school was a greater disappointment to Pa than
Arilla getting married. Fred was a
son. He was looking for a son with an
education qualifying him to get a good job, marry a nice girl, and raise a
family. Mostly boys would be nicer, who
would carry the Harmon name. Pa had
told Fred, “You are not twenty-one. I
could force you to go back to school, apologize to your teacher, and return to
your classes. But if you are not
interested, you will be too stubborn to study.
So, go your way. Just one thing,
Fred. You have broken not only your
promise, but you have crushed my pride and wounded my spirit. How can a father look to the future with the
disappointment that two of my children have brought me face to face with? A curtain of uncertainty has come between me
and the future. Beyond this curtain, a
blank wall raises its ugly face. Just
remember, Fred, as you walk out that door, you are carrying your earthly
belongings as well as a part of your Mama’s heart - mine as well. Come back to see us occasionally.”
A
few months passed, and Grandpa continued to have periods of gaining. Then the loss of appetite weakened him,
seemingly more each time. The spring
season was fast approaching, and Grandma Betsy feared the change would be too
much for her companion of almost fifty years.
Grandpa had decided to close the shop before the spring orders started
coming in. His assistant was not
qualified to do all kinds of tool-making, and Grandpa did not feel he could
guarantee work he had not supervised.
“Perfection” was his motto.
Once
more, back in Waleska preparations were beginning for the commencement gaieties
just a month or so away. The teachers
now had so many more students to be included in the festivities. Tryouts would be held, first to find singers
for special programs, and students to give readings, and so on for other
specialties. These tests would give a
basis for extra-special entertainment that up until now the public had had very
little of. The young scholars were all
excited. It was also something special
for the new students. The Harmon girls
were all up in the air about what to try out for. It had to be something they liked doing.
Pa
was interested in tobacco raising, so he spent more time over on the farm than
usual. He loved the quietness of the
outdoor life. He often told me about
how he would sit down on a big oak stump near a bubbling spring that came
flowing out from between two huge rocks as fast as his fox dogs could chase a
fox. He loved the musical sound this
rushing stream made as it tumbled over the solid rocks, racing due north in the
opposite direction from the river it would finally empty into. Eventually, the crystal clear stream would
flow into the muddy waters of the Etowah River. My dad was like that. He
was an ardent lover of nature and the outdoors that held so much of God’s
greatness, if people would only take the time to look for it. Even the ornery tobacco worm was beautiful
to him, but it was destructive, and so it had to be destroyed.
Aunt
Molly had been his fastest and best “worm catcher,” but now she had very little
time for this, since Grandpa Joshua was requiring a lot more care. He needed someone near to answer his call at
any moment. Aunt Molly carried on the
management of everything, leaving Grandma near to keep him company and to give
him his medicines. Grandma Betsy
realized he could pass away at any time, and it was showing in her careworn
face. Pa realized his brave and heroic
dad was fast slipping away from his family, too. He had fought his way back countless times, but this time he had
lost some of his fighting spirit. And
it seemed as though a gloom was settling around the big white house on the hill
in the Salacoa Valley.
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Spring
was far spent. Commencement had been
the highlight for the surrounding area, but now the students had gone home, and
things in Waleska were rather quiet.
Now the girls were out of school and could help around the house and
give Mama more time to spend with Grandpa.
And this she did. He was so
happy to have her near, and the first thing he usually asked was, “Emmie, when
is that new grandson going to arrive?”
Mama would reply, “A grandson would be nice, and George is anxious for
it to be a boy, and so am I, but what if it’s a girl? We can’t send her back.”
His reply was, “Oh, keep her. We
would not want to send her back. Girls
are sweet.”
Note: A discrepancy with dates should be pointed out
here. Joshua Harmon died in 1882,
eighteen years before the birth of Daisy Belle Harmon in 1900. This means that the infant referred to in
the narrative must have been Fred Arnold Harmon, born in 1881.
It
was the day for Dr. Harden to come to check him, and Mama was so glad to be
visiting her “Pa.” Maybe he would find
everyone was mistaken that Grandpa was no worse, but just had a touch of spring
fever. The doctor came and checked him
and stayed to visit with Grandpa. He
reminded him that farmers would be needing tools. But with a little sadness in his voice, Grandpa told him that he
had closed his shop. “You remember
‘Perfection’ was my motto. I closed the
shop since I can no longer be there to supervise and guarantee the work.” The doctor was trying to cheer him up, but
it seemed that Grandpa had yielded to the inevitable truth that the pain was
getting to be more than he could endure.
Yet, still he hoped for a change.
The
family was stunned at the thought that their dad could not be with them but a
very short time. They were lost at the
very thought of not having him around to advise them. Later that day he seemed to come to life all at once, and Mama
sat down on the edge of the bed and asked if he felt better. He answered, “Yes, I do.” Then he turned his head to the left side and
was gone. No more pain for one of the
bravest men who ever lived. Uncle Sam
was first to break the silence. He
asked the question, “What will we do for someone to answer our questions or
solve our problems? Grandpa wasn’t God
in any respect, but he knew right from wrong.
And to him ‘right’ meant being a friend to the needy and being ready to
help build a better relationship in the community. The Civil War wasn’t over in adjoining communities, but he tried
to reason with the northern sympathizers.
He said, ‘Let us stand for unity,’ and it had its effect.”
Grandpa
Joshua was buried in the Salacoa Valley just a few miles from where he, his
three brothers, and one sister first settled in Georgia. Back then he had decided it was an ideal
place for farming in the fertile valley, and the nearby mountains were
excellent for hunting. He had liked
Georgia very much and had been successful there. The War Between the States took its toll, but he worked hard and
was soon a successful master mechanic, owning a shop equipped to build almost
anything the public wanted. He was
successful to the extent that he had become, on his own, a rich man. No one knew the contents of a sheepskin
pouch where he kept his gold coins. As
his customers paid him in greenbacks or silver, he would have Grandma Betsy put
on her riding skirt, and he would saddle Old Dolly and help her mount. Then he would give her a package with an
undisclosed amount of money to be exchanged for gold at the bank in Canton. It was her own choice never to be told the
amount in paper money or in gold. When
she returned, she would deliver the heavy package to Grandpa, and that
concluded her duty. Time after time,
she made these trips to the bank in Canton.
Knowing
his past, after several years she began to see his once seemingly vigorous body
become careworn and tired. He felt
tired more frequently, and she could see that
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Grandpa wasn’t fooling himself. Oftentimes he would try to tell her how
successful he had been, but she would ask him not to confide in her. By saying, “Not yet,” she later admitted she
put him off concerning not only the value of the contents of the bag but where
he kept it hidden. After his death, she
told their children, “I know you children believe I should have let him tell
me. I repeat, I always said, ‘Later you
can tell me.’ One thing he did tell me
was that it is mostly in twenty dollar gold pieces with some tens. Also, I saw the bag several times. It seemed to be about the size of a
half-gallon bucket, and it was heavy.”
The
family was stunned to learn that the money earned from their Pa’s hard work was
lost. Each one had an idea where he
could have hidden it, but when they searched, it turned out to be in the wrong
places. The word finally got out, and
it spread like wildfire. People came
from far and near asking to help find the secret hiding place for a reward of
just a few coins. To be sure, the
Harmons’ dignity was insulted, and they closed the door in these peoples’
faces, ordering them to leave at once.
That was about eighty years ago, and as far as the heirs know, the gold
is still safely hidden where Grandpa Joshua, with his skillful hands, tucked it
away three-fourths of a century ago. It
is still where he put it for safekeeping.
The
tobacco manufacturing had been left to the assistant pretty much of the time
since the opening day that year. Pa had
just been in and out, because of the death of his father. Now he had to make up for lost time. There was not a single employee who had not
made a special effort to do a better job during this time. They knew that their boss was going through
the saddest period of his life. I
remember Pa telling me that during that time of sadness he relived that portion
of his life when he was only ten years old and spent hour after hour atop a
corral post listening for the Home Guard’s horses to come running at full speed
up the narrow road. They knew his Pa
was home, but they didn’t know about his hideout. If they had paid an unexpected visit and seen a member of the
family coming from his hiding place, they would have killed him. He told me he would let his thoughts ramble
through the nightmare of his childhood, and then he would feel so thankful for
having such a Pa. He could be
proud. And when he thought of his
father’s refusing to lend him a hundred dollars, he spoke his thoughts out
loud, “Thank you, Pa, for refusing to make the loan.” When I asked why, he replied, “I was a man, and it made me
realize it was time to show my ability to stand on my own two feet and not use
my dad as a crutch. It made a young man
become determined to be the kind of person our country needed to rebuild our
battle-torn southland.”
After
the sad reminiscing, we will finish up the summer season in the tobacco
factory. The tobacco year had not been
good. The weather had not been in favor
of a bountiful crop, so the growers did not have the tall, full-leafed stalks
they usually produced. This cut short
the output of the factory, so it was fortunate that the overproduction of the
past year helped to make it possible to run the full season.
The
year was 1900. This made twelve years,
counting the four years with the small press and the twenty some-odd employees
who had to learn everything from the first stalk of tobacco to the moulding of
the first plugs that my Pa had been manufacturing. A new building had been built.
The number of employees had more than doubled, and there was a press in
use that would mold fifty plugs at one time.
Once again the tobacco season was over, and the doors to the factory
were closed. However, the delivery men
were very busy making the deliveries before the winter season slowed their
travel over the red clay roads of North Georgia. When these roads were wet, it was almost impossible to travel,
especially in a heavily-loaded wagon.
Pa was anxious to get as much to market as possible, so he
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could determine just what the factory’s profits had
been for the season. Then he could see
exactly what his books would show when the auditor checked them.
Florrie
helped check the weekly reports, and Pa rechecked them week by week. Yes, this self-educated man with only six
months of schooling could handle figures from the smallest into thousands. He used to say, “Do not say ‘I can’t,’
because I know you can. If you have the
desire and willingness, and the determination is there, you can. I didn’t know how much four times ten was,
but I learned by trying and I continued to try, and by studying along with my
children I can do a lot of things. I
just didn’t give up. English is my
handicap, but I do not say, ‘I haint got,’ ‘you-uns,’ or ‘I’ve just sot down to
rest,’ but it’s true, my English is bad.
I read a lot, and that helps me learn how to use words in everyday
conversation. My own lack of an
education made it a must on my part to see that our children had the
opportunity to get an education.” “I
was trying, and I intend to keep on trying,” he concluded.
Christmas
was not too far away. The girls were
excited over the fact that they were going to the big city of Canton to buy new
material for dresses for Christmas parties - and perhaps new shawls to set off
the beauty of their new dresses. Each
one was asking Mama for advice as to what colors and types of material to buy,
when Mama said, “You girls come here. I
want to tell you something. I am going
to need some pretty white material, something soft and light weight.” Their eyes widened in amazement. “Mama, you mean we are going to have a new
baby in the house?” they asked. “Sam
has been the baby for over seven years.
Now a new baby!” They jumped for
joy. “A little baby to play with. Aren’t we all glad?” Then Florrie said, “No, I’m not glad. You are not thinking of all those
diapers. Well, I am having no part in
the diaper washing.” Mama was in
tears. Her reply to Florrie was, “I
will wash the diapers myself, Florrie.
Who knows, this angel I am nurturing in my own body at an age few women
bare children could be sent by God to take care of me when I am old and feeble
- I wonder if it could be true?” Leila
then asked for more specific details about how much material to buy.
The
girls bought everything they had planned to buy and came back home and started
to cut the pretty material by the latest style patterns. The pretty soft, white material bought for
the new baby was folded carefully and wrapped in tissue paper and put in Mama’s
trunk until a later time when she would sew it herself.
The
Christmas season was over. The younger
Waleskians had had a delightful holiday vacation, but now long faces could be
seen on the Reinhardt campus, because it was time to get back to the books and
hard studying that was expected of each student. The professors made it clear that a lot of the students were
going to fail if their grades did not improve.
Florrie knew she was one of that group, and she was furious. Her English grades were just passable. One day she came home very angry and told Pa
her English teacher disliked her, and that was the reason why she was going to
fail her. She added, “And that’s not
all. I do not like her either. She has her pets.” Pa talked to his ill-tempered daughter, trying to get her to
promise to study and keep up her assignments.
He told her, “”You will see a change in your English teacher’s
attitude. Give it a try and see. Do this for me, Florrie, please. Do your extra best for one week, and you may
change your mind. You know my dreams
have already been shattered. I believed
each one of our children would see the sacrifice your Mama and me made when we
left the farm and completed this house.
As originally planned, we would one day see each one of you walk off the
Reinhardt College stage with a diploma.
Now a third child is about to add another wound to our hearts. All has been said by us. The rest is left for you to decide.” The weeks passed, and Florrie reached her
decision. She came in, flung her books
on the table, and said, “This is my answer.”
Then she turned and went upstairs.
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Plans
to relocate the tobacco factory in Waleska were cancelled. Mama and Pa decided to move back to the farm
when school was out. Mr. Fields had
rented the house and farm with the understanding that he would be given three
months notice if and when the house was to be vacated. It was decided that it would be cheaper for
the girls to stay in the Girl’s Hall on campus than it was for the family to
live in Waleska. So after commencement,
a “For Rent or Sale” sign was hung in front of the house of “Three
Gables.” It did not hang there very
long. Dr. Fautner from Ball Ground
bought the house and the extra lots.
The Harmons would be moving back to the farm, leaving behind shattered
dreams and memories.
It
was somewhat of a surprise when the plan was announced to the family. Really, Leila, Bessie, and Sam were the only
three who planned to stay in school.
Agnes had developed a disease called stomach tetus. Dr. Harden had diagnosed it and said it was
extremely hard to control and cure. She
would have to stay on a very strict diet for a month or so, and maybe for
years. It was necessary for her to stay
home, so the medication could be taken on time and meals carefully prepared and
eaten four times daily. Agnes was
considered the best cook among the girls and delighted in cooking, but I was
later told that she preferred playing with me, the new baby. She would not let me cry. I was only a few months old and so tiny that
she thought it was terrible to let me cry or be neglected. Sam was now a big boy and had very little to
say or do with the new baby.
Preparations
were made for the move back to the farm.
Pa carried a lot of items as he traveled back and forth making
preparations for the tobacco factory to open.
Perhaps the factory would open a little later than usual. As mentioned before, a blight or rust had
struck the crop a year or so earlier, and the farmers had decided to plant
about half of their tobacco ground in cotton.
They were afraid that their tobacco crop would be cut short again. Then too, prices for cotton had been much
higher for the past year. Sure enough,
the blight struck the crop for a second year, and the beautiful, tall, wide
leaves of the burley tobacco began to turn a sickly yellow, making them look
like they were ready for harvesting.
Almost overnight, the rust struck fields of this choice tobacco. Pa would not buy the rust stricken tobacco,
but it was hard on him to have to check the plants of his friends and find the
red, fuzzy mold on the beautiful leaves that had once gone into the “Harmon’s
Best” bin - choice leaves that had helped make that brand so popular across
Georgia, nearby Alabama, and North Carolina.
But the motto “Perfect” that hung on a plaque behind his desk was his
standard. Some men understood that he
could not use the tobacco with a disease unknown until recent years, but others
thought he should buy theirs regardless.
Pa explained that his honor was at stake. Then too, he did not know whether the rust would be harmful to
the users of the processed tobacco.
Farmers who had not planted some cotton were hard hit, and the season
for the factory staff was shortened, but they used all the tobacco that was
free of rust.
Very
little has been said about Grandma Betsy for some time. Fred was living with her and making a good
assistant on the farm, but Uncle Sam was not well. The family doctor seemed concerned about him, but he would not
admit he was sick, even though he had lost an unusual amount of weight within a
short period of time. His girlfriend
Maggie had died from typhoid fever a short time earlier, and they had planned
to be married during the time she was ill.
After her death, he told everyone he had no desire to live, and he died
within a few weeks of her death. It was
a shock to everyone. He had asked to be
buried by the side of his beloved Maggie, and her family granted his wish. Dr. Harden told the family he died from a
broken heart.
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Insert: Samuel J. H. Harmon is buried beside his
brother James (Jimmy) Harmon in the Hutchinson Cemetery off Salacoa Valley
Road. There is no marker on the other
side of Sam’s grave, which is on the edge of the woods. Whether or not Maggie’s grave is there
cannot be determined.
This
left Grandma Betsy and Aunt Molly alone.
Pa was left with the responsibility of making plans for Grandma and his
dear old maid sister whom he loved so dearly.
Virgil, Uncle Will’s son, was given the big white house on the hill that
had been the happy home of the Harmon family after the turmoil of the war
years. He promised to look after his
Grandma and Aunt. He was bound with a
pledge to care for their every need. He
was warned that Grandma was still capable of making changes and decisions and
that she was still in charge and should be consulted when changes were made.
The
tedious and time-consuming hours of moving were over, but it was a shock to
Mama to find the house in a deplorable mess.
Mrs. Fields had known for three months that they had to be ready to give
the house over in good condition.
Instead, the floors had greasy spots all over them. They looked like pans or bowls of grease had
been spilled all over two rooms. If
only someone had checked the house before they had moved, but Mama had felt
sure the previous occupants would leave it clean. So, only the stove and one table were set up in the kitchen.
Pa
had to take time off from his factory duties to make Mama a shuck mop, so that
she could get the floors clean. To do
this, first Pa took a block of wood about twelve inches long and bored a lot of
auger holes through it. Then he pulled
shucks through the holes and left them about four inches long. Last, a handle was fitted securely into the
center hole. This mop, soaked in a tub
of water and homemade lye soap, was used to scrub the floors. They all sprinkled white sand on the floor
and scrubbed over and over with the mop, and the greasy spots began to fade. It took lots of water, but good old Sam kept
his part of the bargain. And after
hours of scrubbing, it looked to Mama’s liking. Now she had to rinse the floor until all the sand was flushed
away and then let the warm spring air dry the floor. One room was all she felt like scrubbing the first day. The next day she would scrub the dining room
and on and on, one room each day, until the entire house had been scrubbed from
top to bottom. Soon the whole house
from the front door to the back was clean as a whistle.
Agnes
was the chief furniture arranger. She
could take the skimpy furnishings of an old time country bedroom and make it
look inviting and cozy. There were
curtains on the windows that waved in the breeze and a pretty homespun spread
on the bed with gay stripes or colorful baskets of flowers in the center.
Poor
little old me had really been neglected.
They said that I would stand in the old antique baby bed, handed down to
the ninth little Harmon, and cry. Then
Agnes would take over and bathe me and wash away my tears that had gotten my
curls all wet and dirty. Soon she had
me in snow-white clothes and my hair washed and brushed until the curls hung in
ringlets. They thought that the sudden
change in surroundings had made me unhappy.
So with a little extra loving attention, I soon forgot the move, and
everything was natural to me.
The
factory had opened with less than half the usual tobacco supply. The salesmen were delivering stock held over
from the previous year. They were
instructed to tell the buyers that perhaps this season’s supply would be the
last of the Harmon’s brands. Then they
were to explain that due to the rust damaging the tobacco, crop farmers were
not going
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to plant tobacco the next year. This news was a surprise to each buyer. They could not believe that this was their
final opportunity to purchase Harmon’s brands of tobacco. After a period of establishing a good
business, now the product would no longer be available. These businessmen knew the quality of the
products manufactured by George M. Harmon Tobacco Manufacturing Company. They had had government inspectors say, “No
need to tap this man’s boxes. I have
never found in his factory or on any display counter any brand that did not
meet its standard.” Hundreds of
businessmen from the smallest to the wealthiest wanted to continue to furnish
their customers this fine tobacco for years to come.
One
man had an idea to help the factory keep running on a more regular basis. He contacted businesses that were regular
buyers and proposed that the companies or small businesses band together to buy
tobacco from the State of Virginia.
They would have the tobacco brought in by chartered railroad car and
charge Pa only a small price, perhaps very little more than he was paying
Georgia farmers at the factory door.
Those contacted agreed to see the man at the factory. It would mean higher prices all the way
around, but the buyers believed the product would sell regardless of the higher
prices. Pa thought it over very
carefully and decided it would be a step in the dark that he was fearful to
trust with no more capital than he had.
So he replied, expressing his appreciation and gratitude for their
interest in his product and the desire to keep it on the market, “Truthfully,
you have proven honesty pays off. I
have kept my motto ‘Perfection,’ and my product proved that this policy has
been profitable. But I’m sorry to say
that as soon as my salesmen deliver the tobacco on hand, the factory of George
M. Harmon will be closed.”
To
Pa’s surprise, for years to come, he would get a letter now and then from a
former user of his product. Then, too,
he crossed paths with grateful people who had worked in the factory, and that
was always a treat.
Let
us take an entirely new look to see what the plans were at this point. Farmers were going to plant cotton and corn
along with a lot of potatoes for the market.
Mr. Westbrooks was to be Pa’s foreman.
Now here is the joker! Pa was
making plans to go into the sawmill business.
He owned several hundred acres of hilly forest land where he could cut
pine trees. These forest pines were
tall and beautiful and showed very few limbs.
Therefore, they would make good lumber with few ugly knots. His sawmill was being installed, but how was
he going to get the big steam engine?
It was eight miles to the nearest railroad station in Canton. The engine was self-propelled, so Pa decided
to have it driven from Canton to Waleska.
There were two small wheels in front with two high or tall back wheels
with deep flanges that gave support to this big monster, so that it could be
moved from place to place. It had a
capacity of fifty horsepower when put into action. It would take time to travel the eight miles. First it had to be filled with water, next
with wood to make steam. This would
allow the engine to pull itself along the narrow, hilly road from Canton to
Waleska. Since it was new, care had to
be taken not to get it too hot, or it would have blown some of the flues that
kept the water flowing into the boiler that held one hundred and fifty gallons
of water. This machine generated power
to pull its weight up Bird Mountain, which had to be crossed between Canton and
Waleska.
Now
we will see how things were progressing around the house. The little redhead was talking, but few
words were understandable. She used
mostly sign talk. Agnes was playing
with me one day when Mama asked, “Agnes, how would you like to have a new baby
to play with you and Daisy Belle?” Mama
said Agnes was shocked. She looked up
and said, “You are kidding. You are too
old for another baby. You are in your
forties.” Mama replied, “That’s what
Dr. Moore said, but he assured me it’s true.
He also said that it is a blessing.
This way my age change would be over and also the danger of loss of
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blood.” So a
beautiful little curly headed boy arrived on January 13, 1902. He was strong and did not fail to let anyone
inside or out know he was around.
People would say, “My, he’s got strong lungs.” He was named for one of the Harmon brothers, Frank, who chose to
go out west and settle in Texas.
We
left the new project of sawmilling that was moving along nicely. They had managed to get the big steam engine
to the area selected for the big outfit that would consist of an up-to-date (at
that time) sawmill planer and shingle mill.
On this spot, lumber could be cut to order for a house, from the bottom
sills to the shingles on the roof. But
an early winter moved in and the crew who were cutting the trees had to
quit. The deep freezes had frozen the
trees until you could stand and listen to them pop and crack when the winds
blew. The wind swayed the trees causing
them to split at the heart, rendering them useless, but the men would not know
this until the tree had fallen. Then they would find the whip-lashed center.
Spring
soon came, though, with its warm sunshine and rain that thawed the trees, and
everything was ready for business. The
entire crew went through a few days of training just to make sure everyone was
alert as to the dangers of tree cutting.
If one failed to move or do as instructed, it might cause an
accident. They were told to keep cool
and follow instructions, and things would go like clockwork. Two men were to ride the carriage that moved
up the track with the log to the big saw.
The sawyer, holding the lever, would guide the huge log up to the saw,
while applying pressure to force the saw through the log. Then the lever was reversed, and the two men
turned the log with cant hooks. The
sawyer then applied pressure to cut off a second slab, and so on. A loggerhead was used to hold the log in
place. An off bearer carried the slabs
away as they were sawed off. This was
done four times, and the log was ready to be cut into planks. Each plank was cut exactly the same
thickness. The sawyer cut plank after
plank until that once-big tree was in a stack several times its original
size. Then the lumber was stacked in a
kiln to dry. It remained there until it
was thorougly dried by a fire built in a pit deep in the ground. When the moisture was all dried out, the
lumber might be used for weather-boarding on a home in Waleska, or perhaps it
would be used to build a pretty farm home to replace a shack, where children
could enjoy having a fine home and plenty of room for everyone.
Pa
was really happy. He felt sure that he
had found something constructive that was not only a way of making an income
for his family but a means of helping his community by providing materials to
build new homes. These would bring
improved living conditions, so that the future leaders of his beloved southland
could grow up in a better environment that would bring pride and self-esteem to
the thriving Salacoa Valley.
Yes,
it was a joy to sell a farmer the lumber to build an entire house - every item
that was needed to build any size home - except the nails. It was an exciting business. But the noise from the saw was affecting
Pa’s hearing. This disturbed him. The doctor told him he would probably have
to give up the job as sawyer, because of the damage to his hearing that was
already evident. But he enjoyed seeing
the planks drop one by one and pushing the carriage back for another log, and
so he hated to reassign this task.
Pretty
soon, it was the talk of the community about how many new homes were under
construction or already built and occupied by families who were much
happier. This was especially true of
the children, who would ask, “Is this really our house, and can we keep it?”
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The
decision was made. Pa had to turn the saw with all its noise over to Albert
Elrod, his son-in-law. Still, he found
plenty to do in his little improvised office that he built some distance away
from the noise. His interest was in
keeping all the machinery in tiptop working order and trying to increase
production as orders were coming in daily.
The
changes in the appearance of the community were unbelievable. All along the three mile route to Waleska,
new homes with shade trees and flower beds could be seen. All this proved that progress was on its
way. Also, several homes in Waleska
itself were built with materials that Pa sold to builders. One home in particular was the home of my
sister, Bessie, owned and lived in until her recent death at age 91. I don’t know just how old the house is, but
it is at least sixty-five years old and in good condition. It seems that if nothing happens to it, it
will be there for some time to come.
Lucille Nicholson, Bessie’s daughter, lives there now. It has four bedrooms, a living room, a
dining room, and a kitchen. There are
also two porches. This house was built
by Mr. Rhyne, but he never lived there.
No one ever knew why he rented it and later sold it. The house was ceiled inside with the fancy
beaded ceiling. Here is a fact. There is not a single knot in the ceiling or
weatherboarding inside or out in the entire house.
A
lot of time had slipped by since the family moved back to the farm from
Waleska, and that little redheaded, spoiled brat who thought she should be
entertained constantly had learned a few facts of life. She had learned that she was not so
important after all. You see, there had
been a new arrival in the Harmon home.
(The account, written about
1980, ends at this point with another mention of the birth of the last baby,
Frank Harmon in 1902.)
A
few facts may be added here to fill in some details about the later life of the
Harmons. George Marion Harmon
subsequently served as city commissioner and game warden in Waleska,
Georgia. He supported Reinhardt College
and gave land to that institution. He
was a Methodist and a Freemason. He and
his wife, Mary Emoline (Emma) Cook were buried at the Briar Patch United Methodist
Church, which is now designated as the Dogwood Hills Community Church. He died in 1931, and she died in 1945.
Of
all the Harmon children only Frank finished college, graduating from the
University of Georgia.
Leila
Harmon married John Silvey (“Dock”) Atkins.
They eloped to Jasper, Georgia, and were married on December 13,
1904. Like all the other premature
marriages of their children, the Harmon parents were opposed to this one
also. The first child of the Atkins
couple, Roy, was born in 1906.
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Following
are two letters mailed to Leila Harmon Atkins on March 29, 1934, from her
mother and her sister Daisy Belle, on the birth of Leila’s first grandchild,
Dicky (Richard Lee Atkins). The letters
show that good feelings were restored between the mother and her daughter.
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My dearest Lila,
O
how old you must feel - grandma, ha! ha!
I hope “Jerry” (Geraldine Atkins) and the baby are doing well. Tell Dock if I had hold of him, I would make
him do what I asked him to do - have yours and his picture made and send me
one. I am so hungry to see him. Congratulations to J. S. (Leila’s son and
the baby’s father). I know he is proud
of his son. Hope you are all well. I haven’t been feeling so well for the past
few days, but am some better now. I
have had another spell of upset stomach.
Give all the children my love.
Do hope Harmon (Leila’s youngest son, John Harmon Atkins) is well by
now. I was so sorry to hear of his
accident. Write us soon.
Love and lots of it,
Mother
Dearest Leila and all,
Well,
the work proposition can “rest” until I write you a line. I have tried to get caught up with my work
so I could write you with a peace of mind, but - it seems that if I put off any
longer something else will come along.
I know you want to hear from mama, and I should have written you sooner,
but I neglect writing so often. She is
doing unusually well considering the shock she had two weeks ago. The boys hall burned down, and you know what
a fright it gave her. It gives me a
shudder to think about it. At the time
it burned, the wind was from the east, so you see that made it still
worse. As it happened it was not in the
night. I discovered it while the boys
were at supper. So everybody was on
hand in a short time. We can never
thank the people enough for the work they done. Men and boys were on the house fighting fire and others helping
get our things out. They said they
believed there was at least a thousand gallons of water used on the house. Several have told us that they would not
have given one dime for the house. I
wouldn’t look at the house, but the men said the heat was so great until the
roof would flame up in a dozen places at a time. Boys would stay on top until they were exhausted. Then others would take their places. Everything in the house was carried out
except the kitchen stoves and table.
They thought if it should go, they could carry them out in a few
minutes. Not even a picture glass was
broken. It started raining just before
the danger was over. You say mud, but I
tell you I had plenty to wash out. But
washing them was a pleasure. I was glad
to have them to wash. Bessie’s home was
in danger, but the wind brought the live coals and flames over this way. It was extremely hot over there, but their
house did not catch but about once.
I
carried mama to the parsonage, and when it was all over, she didn’t remember
one thing about it. I feared it might
affect her mind, but it hasn’t. She had
to stay in bed for several days but is up now.
Her back is still weak and hurts her some. But she looks the best she has in three or four years. I am going to do all I can for her, and if I
should outlive her, I would have no regrets on my part. Then, I don’t care where I go, but the
farther from here the better for me.
Bessie
is still “blowing around like a paper bag.”
But the March wind has not lifted her yet. She looks so bad.
Bill’s
baby has had measles, and Betty hasn’t taken them yet. The little baby was right sick, but they did
not hurt her so very much.
My!
but I know you must feel old, since you are grandma. I know J. S. is tickled because it’s a boy. Mama and me want to send it something in the
near future.
We
were so sorry about Harmon’s accident.
I hope his arm will be all right, but it will be a wonder if it is,
won’t it?
Tell
Dock hello. I sure would like to see
him, in fact, all of you. Write us when
you have time.
Lot
of love to you all.
Daisy
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